"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Action dating ideas?

youngmack

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What are some great action dates i can go on with a girl? I learned that dinner dates are usually boring and should be used when you have been dating a girl for a couple of months..

So i need some suggestions of what kind of dates will keep the girl interested and allows us to have fun. I know my personality will play a part in this..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dutchmaster

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Bowling, mini golf, walks in the park.
 

Atom Smasher

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Antiquing, find an outdoor arts exhibit, go to an area where there are rows of shops/boutiques, beach, amusement park, carnival, zoo, unique museum, bike riding, hiking, visit haunted house (find an old building, take her there at twilight and tell her made-up stories), kayaking, skating, Renaisance festival, an arts place where they teach you to make some kind of art, car show, r/c track (rent cars), fishing, kite flying, old style picnic with wine & cheese.

You should do all these in one day to impress her. ;)
 

PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
.... fu$king is the best action date.
 

metoo

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take her to a QUALITY, small numbers karate class, take her shooting, with a .22, NOT a shotgun or centerfire, and don't let her be NEAR guns firing without ear and eye protection. take her on a motorcycle ride, back roads and scenic country. horseback riding, bicycling work, too, as does backpacking-camping, if the terrain, pace and distance are easy enough, and the area is scenic enough.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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