"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Action dates really are amazing

Shivastorm_88

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2007
Messages
408
Reaction score
16
I had a date with a girl that I met through a friend, and that girl is very shy and introverted (I noticed, and confirmed by my friend as well).

We played tennis for roughly two hours (her first time), she had a blast, we were joking around, kinoing, hell it brought so many occasions for C&F (meteasing her and all), and she was basically coming out of her shell really fast (a lot faster than my friend warned me).

After that, we played marco polo in the park playground, and again it worked wonders. She had a blast, was talking a lot, joking around, was extremely playful, etc. Basically, anything but shy or introverted.

Not to mention that I also had a blast, but not through her, but by the mere fact that I was basically back to being a little kid again (especially the second part).

I never would've achieved those results through coffee date or movie that's for sure, it would've been nothing but an awkward date.

Go action dates! :cheer: hahah

Edit: To better sum it up, it wasn't a date. I was out there having fun and she was tagging along.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Sir Psycho Sexy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2010
Messages
452
Reaction score
15
Location
City of Angels
Joe Stud said:
haha^


Tennis really is a fun and relaxing date. Infact almost any action date is going to be great:up: It gives them a great impression of what your life is on a daily basis.
Im always sure to get a quick kiss for good luck before heading to the other side of the court.

Try skydiving, if you can find a girl adventurous enough, she will always have an amazing memory with you.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2008
Messages
521
Reaction score
19
Skydiving?
I've seen it a lot on this forum, but are you guys really serious?

Who pays for the whole thing?
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2010
Messages
452
Reaction score
15
Location
City of Angels
ChalengeGuyFan said:
Who pays for the whole thing?
Lol, no one pays for the whole thing. You pay your way and she pays hers. Most drop zones will be a little under $200.

Dont you ever feel like doing something a little more interesting with your life? Lots of people want to go skydiving before they die, why not do something amazing with a potential fvck? Your killing two birds with one stone.

Its not a random date to do; a little* planning is needed, find the nearest dropzone, pick a saturday afternoon, and do it.

Or you can go to a dinner and a movie, yawn
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top