"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Action dates really are amazing

Shivastorm_88

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I had a date with a girl that I met through a friend, and that girl is very shy and introverted (I noticed, and confirmed by my friend as well).

We played tennis for roughly two hours (her first time), she had a blast, we were joking around, kinoing, hell it brought so many occasions for C&F (meteasing her and all), and she was basically coming out of her shell really fast (a lot faster than my friend warned me).

After that, we played marco polo in the park playground, and again it worked wonders. She had a blast, was talking a lot, joking around, was extremely playful, etc. Basically, anything but shy or introverted.

Not to mention that I also had a blast, but not through her, but by the mere fact that I was basically back to being a little kid again (especially the second part).

I never would've achieved those results through coffee date or movie that's for sure, it would've been nothing but an awkward date.

Go action dates! :cheer: hahah

Edit: To better sum it up, it wasn't a date. I was out there having fun and she was tagging along.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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Joe Stud said:
haha^


Tennis really is a fun and relaxing date. Infact almost any action date is going to be great:up: It gives them a great impression of what your life is on a daily basis.
Im always sure to get a quick kiss for good luck before heading to the other side of the court.

Try skydiving, if you can find a girl adventurous enough, she will always have an amazing memory with you.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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Skydiving?
I've seen it a lot on this forum, but are you guys really serious?

Who pays for the whole thing?
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Who pays for the whole thing?
Lol, no one pays for the whole thing. You pay your way and she pays hers. Most drop zones will be a little under $200.

Dont you ever feel like doing something a little more interesting with your life? Lots of people want to go skydiving before they die, why not do something amazing with a potential fvck? Your killing two birds with one stone.

Its not a random date to do; a little* planning is needed, find the nearest dropzone, pick a saturday afternoon, and do it.

Or you can go to a dinner and a movie, yawn
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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