"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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action date or bar/drink date better for 1st facebook meet up?

pete101

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i have a decision to make. there's this hot facebook woman i'm meeting up with tomorrow who has been giving me a hard time to meet up always saying she's busy etc so i propositioned her with a quick 1/2 hour meet up cos i'm busy.

she's a posh high maintenance type who usually goes to really expensive restaurants/bars, places like that and is accustomed to.

i was thinking of either a)taking her to a pool place (not as nice as places she's used to but it's in an expensive part of town) but she may judge me for taking her somewhere not nice.. but it would be fun plus reduce the amount of grilling i'd get if it was a sit down date.

or b)for a drink at an expensive bar/restaurant (it's cool i only ever buy 1 drink for me and her so i don't end up spending much at all.. if anything the pool scenario would cost more) but may cause a lot of grilling from her probing questions asking me catching me off guard cos it's talking date focused.

which would be a better choice in your opinion?

take into consideration she's a complete stranger but we're meeting early evening broad daylight.

back story: she's asked me before what i 'do' i.e. trying to figure out how much money i make etc but so far i've been coy and not said anything. i dont know how old she is, i'd say 30 and she doesn't know how old I am (25) but probably is used to going out with 35 year old guys who spend stupid amounts of money at expensive restaurants on her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RokyRoc

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Go with the pool date.

Top 5 Reasons why!!!

1. Action Date let that posh hottie sweat a little

2. You are putting balls in holes... doesn't get more suggestive than that

3. If you don't like her 1 game is all it takes (easy in easy out)

4. You can show her how to play (KINO!!!!!!)

5. If she is as hot as you say she is, you can easily progress from here to a bar, or even better, your apartment :D

P.S. Brush up on that pool k? dont get schooled
 

ketostix

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I think you should take her where you are most comfortable and in your element. That is a better advantage than taking her where you speculate she likes best.
 

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I agree with ketostix, go with where you would feel more comfortable. If you usually go hang at pool bars then go there.
 
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