"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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A girl and I slept together a few times, I was hoping to get a relationship out of it, but being relativly new to the "game" I blew it by using too many tactics too fast. Anyways she put me in the "friend zone" which is ok since ive learn to deal with it and had others waiting in the wings anyways, but now that we're "friends" shes acting like a total b**** with one word answers and completely showing no interest like she had before. Should I just move on and ignore her for the rest of my life or should i still try and be friends and act like an adult?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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Anyways she put me in the "friend zone"
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This is just a general question, I'm genuinely confused- how the hell does a girl put you in the friend zone AFTER you've slept with her? That seems backwards.

As far as your original question, being an adult to me means not putting up with disrespect from someone else, whether that be by confronting her about her bytchiness or walking away, as you mentioned in your post. Personally, I'd probably confront her about it, since you've already slept together, then walk away if she didn't respond right.
 
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You can be put in the friendzone at any point. Even if you dated a girl for 4 years and ****ed the living **** out of her all the time, if you become clingy then yes you will be put in the friendzone.

She's acting like a ***** because she lost attraction towards you. She wants to be friends and you want more, so she is obviously going to feel some awkwardness towards you.

Stop contacting this girl, you have no reason to be talking to her anymore.

For future reference, stop looking for a relationship. The more you look, the more this will keep occurring. You do know that the guys who want relationships the least are the ones who usually get begged into them don't you? Why is this? This is because they are the 'prize' and make women work for them. Deep down, women don't want to be waited on hand on foot. Deep down women want to work for a man so they feel a sense of accomplishment when they have finally conquered him. My advice at a young age - don't let them. Keep them biting at the bit.
 
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