"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Acting in LA

chevelle

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So, is LA all about connections, luck, or talent? I have always wanted to move out there and attempt to make a career for myself. I have modeled in NYC and Miami, so i know all about the modeling business, but Hollywood is a different kind of animal. I can't really find any information, other then people writing about negative experiences.

Does anyone have any tips or advice to share? How do you get an agent, how do you find out about casting calls. etc.? I would be happy doing television commercials, but have no idea where to even begin?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd say it's about a little of all of that.Who you know,where you're at and just being in that scene all helps.

have you ever done any theater or drama? alot of the best have started there.It always looks good on your credentials.Go on IMDB.com and check out some of your favorite actors background and history,it may give you an idea of what they had to go through and further motivate you.

Drama programs are pretty cool and if you have the balls to do theater,it'll really get you ready for something like acting.No retakes, no mistakes, you're onstage and all eyes are on you!
I thought about it also but i have too much on my plate right now..
check it out,you never know!
 

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chevelle said:
So, is LA all about connections, luck, or talent? I have always wanted to move out there and attempt to make a career for myself. I have modeled in NYC and Miami, so i know all about the modeling business, but Hollywood is a different kind of animal. I can't really find any information, other then people writing about negative experiences.

Does anyone have any tips or advice to share? How do you get an agent, how do you find out about casting calls. etc.? I would be happy doing television commercials, but have no idea where to even begin?
If you have modelled in NYC and Miami, you should be well aware of how to find an agent (Doing TV commercials, comes from the modelling industry, generally speaking).

You will need both connections AND talent. Or a whole heap of talent, perseverance and dedication. Not to mention, self belief.

I have modelled, and dont a tiny bit of acting, have to say, I hate doing it all. Since a lot of modeling is acting anyways. One of the most boring and annoying things to do I beleive. Fast easy money, but the chances are few and far between.
 

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Actually, i am not looking to sign with a modeling agency. I would like to get an actual agent. There is a huge difference between signing with an agent and signing with a modeling agency. I do understand that most modeling agencies deal with commercial modeling.

I agree with you, the money is fast and in abundance, but you actually have to book jobs in modeling--or you starve.

What agency were you with? Maybe we ran into each other? I have lived/been everywhere.
 

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chevelle said:
Actually, i am not looking to sign with a modeling agency. I would like to get an actual agent. There is a huge difference between signing with an agent and signing with a modeling agency. I do understand that most modeling agencies deal with commercial modeling.

I agree with you, the money is fast and in abundance, but you actually have to book jobs in modeling--or you starve.

What agency were you with? Maybe we ran into each other? I have lived/been everywhere.
I have worked with Elite, but mostly it is work for companies I have been approached by. Not signing with one agency. I did just random jobs, not consistant castings. I hated it, and try to avoid doing it as much as possible, unelss its to help someone out.

I know a few people who do it through agencies, most through Elite, and you get paid well, for little time, but the chances are definately not in abundance. Its hard to get work and you dont get work consistantly. I couldnt stand to be in the industry as a full-time job, unless your the absolute best, your really wasting your time.

I did it in Australia, not in the States.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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