Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Acting afc to get a plate/fwb off your back

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vidrio

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I've never done it, but one of my friends does it all the time. Initially the girl likes it, but you have to go overboard. Start smothering her with attention and being jealous. Personally I don't think it's worth the energy, but if you do it you have to go all out, otherwise the girl will start to like you even more.
 
Bokanovsky

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Wouldn't it be easier to just tell her to get lost?
 
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I nearly did this with an FB of mine, but decided not to...she was nuts, and there was the possibility that she might have been totally into it.
 
VladPatton

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You do realize some girls love AFC behavior don't you? Man up and fire her to get her off your back.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No... AFC just turns you into an orbiter it doesnt get rid of the girl at all.

If you really want to get rid of her, stop giving attention and just keep asking her to do work for you instead. She will get feed up.
 
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