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Ken785

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a little backround...

i live with this hb7 ehjo ive known for about 5 months now..she has a friend whos a hb9. ive always had an interest in hb9 ever since i met her but was always the "nice guy" and we were just friends. anyways i always like to kino her but she always seemed to retractive towards it sometimes. so slowly i started to act like a jerk to her...acting all nice to her but when she would leave i would slam the door in her face, negging her,,, and stuff like that...but she would always think im an as$h0le but in the bad way for it. and hb7 gets jealous cuz i give my attention to hb9 most of the time. ive been trying to retreat my attention and just chill though.

so me and my roommate hb7 went out with her friend hb9 last night to a karaoke bar with a few of their coworker friends...i get drunk as hell...so were outside smoking with hb9 and some bouncer dude...i see her tattoo that she just got (i was there when she got it) i poke at it and she moves her leg away real quick..the bouncer asks what it was and she says its a coy fish and i say gold fish...and i say it doesnt look THAT bad...and she calls me a fvcking as$h0le!....then when i was smoking with this smoking outside with this dude from the bar...we were talking about vacation spots and i tell him that i just went to brazil and in brasil all it costs was 21 dollars and you can get any girl you want and yadayada...he was into the convo too...im saying thats the tights pvssy you can get (said it kinda loud though) so im talking all loud n stuff and i turn around and there was hb7,hb9 and some of their friends (at that point im like i pray to g0d they didnt hear me!!) and then i move over to them...

by the end of the night im rolling home with hb7 and shes like you were being kinda touchy feel with that dude tonight (i was slapping hands with him tonight...kinda alot like after every 5 sentences) and she said i was being touchy feely with hb7 and hb9 too much too...i was like that dude was koo though...she said he was but i didnt know him and if done to the wrong person i could have a problem because it is at a bar and everything...i was like you guys dont feel comfortable with me doing that or something...she was like we do...but yadayada...forgot what she said...


anyways...fvck im not going to drink like that ever again! lesson learned!!! i know i made a lot of mistakes and made a complete a$$ of myself...how do you guys think i can recoup from this???

i know its going to be really hard. seems like these chicks totally arent interested. i was total AFC and made an as$ of myself...anyways i know everyone here must have made an drunken as$ out of themself too at one time or another....LETS HEAR YOUR ADVICE AND STORIES!!
 

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**** what those 2 girls think. If i'm at a bar, everybody is touching me. Its just the booze. Who cares?

Dont try to recoup yourself. **** happens. Get over it and move on.

Go out and find another girl, and bring her around when the 2 girls are around you.

Also you can get ****faced drunk, as long as you think about something before you do it.
 

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when you try to force kino on some one who doesnot like it you intensify her negative feeling of you and if she like it u intensify her positive feeling of you. i learned my lesson the hard way.
 

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Those girls are not interested in you forget about them.

Personally, I don't like the "jerk" approach that people TRY to IMMITADE. Fact is...you are either a natural or you are not.


Concerning the drinking "incident"? Forget about it. In fact, don't talk about it anymore. If she brings it up...tell her that you heard her the first time. If you embarrassed her in front of her co-workers...said, "I'm sorry". Men say things like that too.
 

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Latinoman said:
Those girls are not interested in you forget about them.

Personally, I don't like the "jerk" approach that people TRY to IMMITADE. Fact is...you are either a natural or you are not.

What I find is that a lot of us are "jerks" like that naturally but repress it because of being conditioned that it will drive women away. Then once we learn hey who gives a damn and go back to doing what we want things go well. Being the "jerk" is really just flirting anyway. It's being a jerk enough that they're not quite sure if you're being a d1ck or just playing with them. I do that to even my guy friends to an extent.




Along those lines i was pretty drunk and some girl a few weeks ago tried to get me to dance a few times and i ended up being like DAMMIT NO and pushed her as she was touching me. She spent the rest of the night giving me the finger behind my back apparently.

But then 2 weeks later i saw her at another bar and she came right up to me "remember me?" Me: "not really" Crazy women.
 
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