"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Act On Instinct

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Damn I'm slow to realise things

When I was out a while back I was a bit gone with the drink and me and my mate went to this little club and he saw an old female friend of his, her friend looked bored as she wasn't involved and my instinct was to rach out my hand to her as it to be polite, she accepted. Ofc I got confused at this point as I didn't expect such a positive response, and let go shortly after, only realising just now it was a positive thing as it was a cue for me to take her dancing, and for illustration purposes I mean the sort of handgrab where you lean your hand out, palm up, and her hand on top.

tl;dr, act on instinct and don't think
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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