"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Act On Instinct

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Damn I'm slow to realise things

When I was out a while back I was a bit gone with the drink and me and my mate went to this little club and he saw an old female friend of his, her friend looked bored as she wasn't involved and my instinct was to rach out my hand to her as it to be polite, she accepted. Ofc I got confused at this point as I didn't expect such a positive response, and let go shortly after, only realising just now it was a positive thing as it was a cue for me to take her dancing, and for illustration purposes I mean the sort of handgrab where you lean your hand out, palm up, and her hand on top.

tl;dr, act on instinct and don't think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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