"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Act of God??? Very STRANGE Situation here and I need help

FutureDJMaster

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So I found this site with like a month left in HS and looking back on my HS career I see a LOT of missed opportunities and other things. I started college this week and I swore to myself that I would not miss all the opportunities that I did in HS. So I think it was Tues or Weds I found out that a girl I liked from HS goes to the same college.

So I was sitting on a bench and she came up beside me and literally moved me to the side and sat beside me lol. We talked for awhile, got some laughs, did a little kino. (The best part of it was I was just doing it and not thinking about it at all:D ) But this is where I failed. She had to go to class and I should have # closed right then and there but I didn't. I slapped myself later for it lol.

Fast forward to today a buddy texted me from work asking me something. So I texted him the answer, and I'll say about 5 min after that I get a text saying "who is this". Me thinking its just a friend playing a joke I just mimic them.

Person: who is this
Me: who is this?
Person: you texted me
Me:ummm you texted me lol
Person: XXXXXXX now who is this lol (They said their name and this where I was at a loss for words)

It was the girl and I have no clue how it happened :confused: . How should I respond to this? If I don't tell her its me when I actually get her # she'll realize that it was me in the first place and think something weird is going on. I really don't know how to respond to this any insight guys?


P.S. First post!!!!!!:eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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boomerick

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Why not keep a cool head and just game her like you PLANNED for her to text you....

Respond as if it was no big deal....

Play it like you have tons of chicks texting you all the time...

Don't ask how she did it .....

She'll blab it all out eventually with out you even asking.....

Really ...it doesn't matter......

Just have fun with her and stop making unimportant things out to be so important.....

JEEZ...an act of God????...Really???.....

Keep a cool head cheif...

Chicks are FUN !!!....

Over and Out.
 

Naughty Ninja

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Simple solution: Call the number you texted. If SHE answers ask how she got your number. (or you hear her voice on her voicemail).

If it's a guys voice you know it's a joke as you may've told someone about her.
 

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FutureDJMaster said:
So I found this site with like a month left in HS and looking back on my HS career I see a LOT of missed opportunities and other things. I started college this week and I swore to myself that I would not miss all the opportunities that I did in HS. So I think it was Tues or Weds I found out that a girl I liked from HS goes to the same college.

So I was sitting on a bench and she came up beside me and literally moved me to the side and sat beside me lol. We talked for awhile, got some laughs, did a little kino. (The best part of it was I was just doing it and not thinking about it at all:D ) But this is where I failed. She had to go to class and I should have # closed right then and there but I didn't. I slapped myself later for it lol.

Fast forward to today a buddy texted me from work asking me something. So I texted him the answer, and I'll say about 5 min after that I get a text saying "who is this". Me thinking its just a friend playing a joke I just mimic them.

Person: who is this
Me: who is this?
Person: you texted me
Me:ummm you texted me lol
Person: XXXXXXX now who is this lol (They said their name and this where I was at a loss for words)

It was the girl and I have no clue how it happened :confused: . How should I respond to this? If I don't tell her its me when I actually get her # she'll realize that it was me in the first place and think something weird is going on. I really don't know how to respond to this any insight guys?


P.S. First post!!!!!!:eek:
If she is the one who texted you first, this is a golden opp and you have nothing to worry about.

Simply say "wow this is FDJM, how did you get my number?! Are you stalking me?!" :)

My guess is she had your number from before, and simply is doing this to break the ice and talk to you, or somehow she got it from your friend whom you texted right before she texted you and she's just being sneaky about it.


Or...like the poster above said, this could be a joke pulled by one of your friends.
 

FutureDJMaster

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Lol the title was just an atenttion grabber;p I didn't actually believe that lol and thanks for the help guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It happened to me a few times that we were at a party or at a club ...i had a good time with a girl then i left without saying anything ... after 2 days the phone rings...

-Hi! Its me! (girls name)!
-Hi! Whats the matter?
-You are coming home from school with .... train, right?
Im gonna wait for you at the station. bye
-OK. ....bye

...and im thinking WTF was this???

If a girl wants to know your number ...she will.
 

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...and of course never ask "How did you get my number?" or something like this ...that would be the lamest thing.
 
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