CaptainSaveAh0
Don Juan
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Hey guys,
I am noticing the amount of desperation for pvssy especially amongst the newer members to be shockingly high.
I have a story for you told to me by one of my close female friends ( who knows nothing about the Don Juan lifestyle) She is a solid HB 8.
It goes something like this:
My friend she was at a club and she was dancing with her GF's. She notices a guy dancing near her for a long time but he was not making any moves on her. Being an HB8 ( possibly higher while drunk) she was shocked that this guy made no moves on her. Her friends thought the guy was good looking so they went up to the guy and introduced him to the HB 8. They talked briefly and he didn't offer to buy her any drinks and didn't even ask for her number which left her shocked. So many guys had approached her, bought her drinks, called her beautiful and she didn't remember ANY of them.
However, she did remember the one guy who engaged in an interesting conversation with her and didn't shoot any pointless compliments putting her high on the pedestal. Unless you look like Ryan Gossling or David Beckham she most likely will not remember your compliments and most likely will not remember the $50 you spent on her on drinks.
To continue the story, she saw the same guy from the club at the gym and once again he engaged in conversation but did not take it to the next level. He is making her put in the work for it and it is working. She told me she has to find out who that guy is and is planning on approaching herself ( as rare as that is).
What is the moral of this story you ask?
The moral of this story is if you want to score with a woman who is an HB8 or higher and is constantly put flooded with compliments and orbiters DIFFERENTIATE YOURSELF
This can be done by:
1) Engaging in interesting conversation topics. I would suggest cutting down on TV and pick up some books. Keep up with some entertainment news and worldwide news as well. Women love that entertainment news garbage.
2) Do not spoil her with compliments. HB8's usually recieve many pick ups attempts a day and most of the guys will attempt a sappy compliment to get the ball rolling. Don't let this be you.
3) Be mysterious Get her talking about herself more , rather than talking about yourself. Woman have endless things to say about themselves.
4)Don't be needy. Once you do get the girl of your dreams number do not call her all the time and make yourself available all the time. Woman don't want to be spoiled by your attention or they will get bored of you.
5)Good body language and vibe. Give off a likeable aura about yourself that makes a girl instantly comfortable around you. Smile when you are approaching her have good body language and posture.
With all of this being said, my point is to keep approaching as much as you can BUT try and differentiate yourself from the rest. Especially when you are approaching these HB 8's. I'm sure there is more things I am missing out on so feel free to add onto this list.
I know many threads have been made about this already and I am just reiterating knowledge that is already posted on here but I thought I would share this story for PROOF that this method is successful. For more info about this check out POOK's thread about desperation. I feel like this subject really needs to become relevant to all the new so suave members and this should be a valuable lesson they need to learn in the journey to becoming the ultimate DJ.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926
I am noticing the amount of desperation for pvssy especially amongst the newer members to be shockingly high.
I have a story for you told to me by one of my close female friends ( who knows nothing about the Don Juan lifestyle) She is a solid HB 8.
It goes something like this:
My friend she was at a club and she was dancing with her GF's. She notices a guy dancing near her for a long time but he was not making any moves on her. Being an HB8 ( possibly higher while drunk) she was shocked that this guy made no moves on her. Her friends thought the guy was good looking so they went up to the guy and introduced him to the HB 8. They talked briefly and he didn't offer to buy her any drinks and didn't even ask for her number which left her shocked. So many guys had approached her, bought her drinks, called her beautiful and she didn't remember ANY of them.
However, she did remember the one guy who engaged in an interesting conversation with her and didn't shoot any pointless compliments putting her high on the pedestal. Unless you look like Ryan Gossling or David Beckham she most likely will not remember your compliments and most likely will not remember the $50 you spent on her on drinks.
To continue the story, she saw the same guy from the club at the gym and once again he engaged in conversation but did not take it to the next level. He is making her put in the work for it and it is working. She told me she has to find out who that guy is and is planning on approaching herself ( as rare as that is).
What is the moral of this story you ask?
The moral of this story is if you want to score with a woman who is an HB8 or higher and is constantly put flooded with compliments and orbiters DIFFERENTIATE YOURSELF
This can be done by:
1) Engaging in interesting conversation topics. I would suggest cutting down on TV and pick up some books. Keep up with some entertainment news and worldwide news as well. Women love that entertainment news garbage.
2) Do not spoil her with compliments. HB8's usually recieve many pick ups attempts a day and most of the guys will attempt a sappy compliment to get the ball rolling. Don't let this be you.
3) Be mysterious Get her talking about herself more , rather than talking about yourself. Woman have endless things to say about themselves.
4)Don't be needy. Once you do get the girl of your dreams number do not call her all the time and make yourself available all the time. Woman don't want to be spoiled by your attention or they will get bored of you.
5)Good body language and vibe. Give off a likeable aura about yourself that makes a girl instantly comfortable around you. Smile when you are approaching her have good body language and posture.
With all of this being said, my point is to keep approaching as much as you can BUT try and differentiate yourself from the rest. Especially when you are approaching these HB 8's. I'm sure there is more things I am missing out on so feel free to add onto this list.
I know many threads have been made about this already and I am just reiterating knowledge that is already posted on here but I thought I would share this story for PROOF that this method is successful. For more info about this check out POOK's thread about desperation. I feel like this subject really needs to become relevant to all the new so suave members and this should be a valuable lesson they need to learn in the journey to becoming the ultimate DJ.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926
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