Act like what you want to be..........and you will become who you want to be.

[Anomalous]

Hey guys, i just noticed why the geeks are geeks and why DJs are DJs. The "geeks", "nerds" whatever you want to call them, they don't get girls because of their attitude.

I was observing these two geeks walking in the hallway. Well they both hunched over (kind of like the hunch back of Notre Dame) they both walk with their hands in their pockets, they were walking somewhat at a fast pace, and they didn't take space (meaning they move out of the way for people).


What do the DJs do?

They walk slowly, chest out, shoulders back, eyes up (not at the ground), never have their hands in their pockets, and take space (this shows dominace).

What makes a more ALPHA impression? Obvious answer.



The point is that if you act like a geek, you will become a geek. And if you act like a DJ you will become a DJ.

Before the DJ and the "geek" approach, they are judge. Girls will be more drawn to someone who has a good posture than a bad one.

The DJ will have more social value by just his appearance than the geek. And the girls will notice that.

What results do "nerds" get........? NO GIRLS
What results do "DJ" get? GIRLS

Act like a DJ and girls will come to you.

Its all a mental game. Find what you want to be, and act like that.


EDIT: the poll showed say EVEN on bad days, instead of ENOUGH on bad days.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

I wonder how you'll act if I stick a gun in front of your face. Like a DJ? Your face is gonna enjoy a hole if you do.

Everyone. Be real. If you're scared, be scared. If you're feeling good and spirited, be good and spirited. Be like the wind.

 

[Q-Pid]

KBDJ

I dunno. How you act is indicative of who you are. There's nothing more irritating than a geek putting on a fake strut

 

[S-lemond]

well you must not of voted whyshy....and i can see that bluelemond hasnt visited this thread yet!!! because im the only one picked the DJ one....wow it all a mental game guys....tell urself what u are, and be it...thats what i did, and hey, i must say! IT FELLS PRETTY DAMNN GOOD holla athca pimpin stay fly, whyshy

 

[snintel]

If you just IMITATE a DJ instead of BECOMING a DJ, you will be exposed even if you have initial approach success with the girl.

If you are an insecure guy who can't communicate and doesn't understand interpersonal relations and you think walking out with your chest out and walking slowly or whatever is going to make you a PUA then you are just wrong.

 

[S-lemond]

hes not saying that, that will make u a dj, hes saying that a dj would more likely be walking like that, then with a hunch

 

[qweretyuiopas]

If you feel like the size of an ant, you can ACT like a DJ all you want but everybody will see through it. You have to be one, not act like one.

 

[cant think of a user name]

Read this.. please

FREE YOURSELF...

If you think too much about your posture, walking and behaviour, it becomes unnatural and you look like a *********************.

However if you accept yourself, flaws and all, and just go out there and be YOUR TRUE SELF, rather than some IDEALIZED, THEORIZED version you call a DJ, then you will be so mcuh more liberated from the boundaries this website can sometimes force you into.


Do you think cavemen were walking around in the stone ages thinking:

"Damn, I should not walk with my hands tucked into my loincloths, I should take them out and look more alpha?!?!"


(the answer is no by the way)


To the original poster: im not trying to bring your post down, because it definitely makes sense if you're already confident to behave in that manner..... but if you try to get geeks to act like DJs then it's just not gonna happen.

So to recap, be genuine, be you, comments welcome/

 

[Wee]

I agree with threadstarter. I used to be quite a nerd back in middle and elementery school. Then I started reading this **** and started acting my part. Eventually it all became a part of me. I voted that I'm a DJ even on bad days, but that is probably just to other people. Deep inside, I'm just a AFC that knows how to act like a DJ. I mean, if I like a girl a lot, I fall for her easy, but I play the game and eventually with a little bit of patience, I get her. But if I was a true true DJ, I wouldn't be falling for girls in the first place. At my school I talk to everyone, even nerdy kids. It doesn't bother me because I can relate to them easy, even now (besides the fact that I'm cool as hell and they aren't). I dunno, even if I don't consider myself much of a playa, you pick a girl and I can get her guarenteed, no problem.

 

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Originally posted by whyshy

What do the DJs do?

They walk slowly, chest out, shoulders back, eyes up (not at the ground), never have their hands in their pockets, and take space (this shows dominace).
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Uh, no, I knew a guy like this and he looked like he was trying to be funny all the time by doing that, he kept pushing his chest out like its natural or something, he looked like a goof