"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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are there any possible way to get rid of acne scars? I have them all over my back because i used pop them when i was younger. now days i only have one or two pimples per month so I'm not worried about eliminating acne. I JUST WANT TO GET RID OF THESE SCARS!!! the fact that i can't even go to the beach or the pool without being self conscious about my back makes me less of a man. any help would be appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scars don't look ugly IMO. Just put some muscle on your back and you'll be fine.
 

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When you shower- just before you soap, pop a vitamin E geltab and rub the oil into to scars. Then soap and rinse with almost-hot water, very well. Afterwards, apply Hawaiian Tropic AfterSun lotion. Do this for three weeks, and the scars are gone. After the three weeks- new skin will cover the raised scars completely. I cleard up my orange-peel face this way! Now, its smoother than a newborn's rear-end.
 

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Dilberto said:
When you shower- just before you soap, pop a vitamin E geltab and rub the oil into to scars. Then soap and rinse with almost-hot water, very well. Afterwards, apply Hawaiian Tropic AfterSun lotion. Do this for three weeks, and the scars are gone. After the three weeks- new skin will cover the raised scars completely. I cleard up my orange-peel face this way! Now, its smoother than a newborn's rear-end.
does the same thing work for streach marks?
 

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I've heard of people using something-or-other acid on acne scars to get rid of them. Can't remember what it's called. Copper peptides (Folligen or Tricomin) supposedly heal even old scars over time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's for some chick I'm training. I'll look into it
 

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I'd stay away from chemical peels, and harsh scrubs. Vitamin E(d-Alpha Tocopherol) is perfectly safe for topical use. It just takes some time for the new skin to take over. Yes- it also works on stretch marks! Contrary to what many think are caused by quick weight-loss....stretch marks are really caused by rapid weight-gain! You gotta literally bathe the skin in E-oil a bit longer(3-5 weeks) for stretchers, though.
 

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Yes she got them from her tits growing to DD's through puberty and her ass. does she need to rub the afterSun sh!t on after applying the vit-E caps for streach marks.
 

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Yep.....after she is all nice and dry. Put the lotion on ideally before bedtime.
 

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sweet, I don't whant to overtake this thread but this would apply to acne scars also.

@dilbert. What IU vit-E should I buy. I already have E 500UI is that OK.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dilberto said:
When you shower- just before you soap, pop a vitamin E geltab and rub the oil into to scars. Then soap and rinse with almost-hot water, very well. Afterwards, apply Hawaiian Tropic AfterSun lotion. Do this for three weeks, and the scars are gone. After the three weeks- new skin will cover the raised scars completely. I cleard up my orange-peel face this way! Now, its smoother than a newborn's rear-end.
Is Hawaiian Tropic a brand? And where can I find this lotion?
 

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Dilberto said:
When you shower- just before you soap, pop a vitamin E geltab and rub the oil into to scars. Then soap and rinse with almost-hot water, very well. Afterwards, apply Hawaiian Tropic AfterSun lotion. Do this for three weeks, and the scars are gone. After the three weeks- new skin will cover the raised scars completely. I cleard up my orange-peel face this way! Now, its smoother than a newborn's rear-end.
Why aftersun lotion?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The best way to get rid of acne scars is to prevent new ones from forming. One and 2 new spot per month can add up since scars take a long time to heal. Focus on not having anymore pimples should be your main concern.

What works for me is Tea tree oil, diet, stress level and exercise. I don't even use any acne medication anymore because that just mess up my skin in the long run and I become dependent on them. You have to fix acne at the source, medication only treat the symptom.

If you don't do anything eles, I would suggest you use Tea Tree oil for spot treatment. I have never tried anything to kill a spot faster then this and it leave no scar behind.
 

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Any brand lotion with Aloe Vera, and Keratin should work. The Aloe and Keratin help promote healthy collagen formation and healing. Tea tree oil works too....especially for psoriasis.
 

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steeltoeboots said:
are there any possible way to get rid of acne scars? I have them all over my back because i used pop them when i was younger. now days i only have one or two pimples per month so I'm not worried about eliminating acne. I JUST WANT TO GET RID OF THESE SCARS!!! the fact that i can't even go to the beach or the pool without being self conscious about my back makes me less of a man. any help would be appreciated.
Just curious how old are you now? How long did it take for your acne to start calming down?
 

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steeltoeboots said:
are there any possible way to get rid of acne scars? I have them all over my back because i used pop them when i was younger. now days i only have one or two pimples per month so I'm not worried about eliminating acne. I JUST WANT TO GET RID OF THESE SCARS!!! the fact that i can't even go to the beach or the pool without being self conscious about my back makes me less of a man. any help would be appreciated.
Cover it up with some killer tattoo artwork!...Full backpiece FTW!!! :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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