"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Acne Scars + Fat Deposits Under Skin

Lust

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Righto, so I never had that much acne a year or two ago, lately I've had a few breakouts but It's been ok. That's not the problem, I've got some scars from past breakouts which don't look too flash.

I actually don't mind them too much, it's not really that bad, but I am getting a job as a topless waiter where your body is the product and I gotta look real good for that. I'd like to have clear skin for the gigs, does anyone know how to get rid of scars short of chem peels and lasers and whatnot?

Also, I've sometimes I get these little lumps of fat underneath my skin, they are larger than pimples, and if I try to pop them they won't budge. (not that I should be popping them anyway).

I have no clue what they are, but they take aaaaages to go away, and almost always leave a scar. Anyone had this before?

Cheerios,

Lust.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are they scars or just red marks? Nothing will get rid of scars except for deep peels, laser treatments or fillers. You can accelerate the removal of red marks with superficial peels and wearing sunscreen, but otherwise they will fade with time.

Those lumps sound like cystic/nodular acne. If you're getting this type of acne frequently you should see a doctor/dermatologist because, like you said, they cause scarring.
 

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simon said:
Are they scars or just red marks? Nothing will get rid of scars except for deep peels, laser treatments or fillers. You can accelerate the removal of red marks with superficial peels and wearing sunscreen, but otherwise they will fade with time.

Those lumps sound like cystic/nodular acne. If you're getting this type of acne frequently you should see a doctor/dermatologist because, like you said, they cause scarring.
Hmm ok cheers. I think it's a bit of both, some may be red marks while others scars.

I'm a bit iffy about going to see a dermo, I don't trust them...
 
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