"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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acne red marks

VSTbeserk

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aight fellas i have red marks on my sides of my face right now i'm using benzoyl peroxide to keep it acne itslef from coming back which is working great but these marks jus don't want to go away i'm also using .025% retin-A to speed up the skin process...any other things that will work besides time? :/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Create Reality

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Take a vitamin supplement and avoid foods containing alot of fat. Dont touch your face after you eat.
 

dj ben2

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red marks are from when the pimple pops. maybe they popped in your sleep or something but thats when they turn red
 

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Thats not the only time skin turns red.

Pimples turn red just about 99% of the time. At least when I get them. Thats whether you pop them or not.

They may be acne scars, or just pimples themselves. If they don't go away in about a week or so, then maybe schedule an appt. with a dermatologist to figure out wtf they are.
 

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Maybe try using a stronger retinoid like Green Cream.

There's also the possibility of using mild chemical peels like glycolic acid.

There's a whole message board dedicated to red marks over at acne.org . Read as many of the longer threads as you can. There's some really useful stuff over there, but also some crazy stuff you don't want to try.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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