TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
It's driving me crazy. Anyone know of a cure for this? I wash, and scrub everyday.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Acne on the back of my neck!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
md3sign
Senior Don Juan
How old are you? Could just be a puberty thing (I got some good/bad acne back in the day).
Otherwise I usually use Neutrogena face astringent (it's an alcohol-based liquid that's blue and comes in a clear bottle). It's like $4 at walmart or walgreens or wherever - just get some cotton balls/pads, put some on there, and rub it one before you go to bed.
Otherwise I usually use Neutrogena face astringent (it's an alcohol-based liquid that's blue and comes in a clear bottle). It's like $4 at walmart or walgreens or wherever - just get some cotton balls/pads, put some on there, and rub it one before you go to bed.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm not in my 20's but I'm not old. I'm primed. 
..with some neck acne.
..with some neck acne.
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
I think 20 rep squats cure most ailments.
KIDDING!
Have you tried witch hazel? My friend swears by it.
KIDDING!
Have you tried witch hazel? My friend swears by it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Funny replies fellas.
No scrubbing? wtf?
Witch Hazel.... will try it, thanks.
No scrubbing? wtf?
Witch Hazel.... will try it, thanks.
Benzoyl Peroxide 5%. Rub it in lightly(very lightly) and let it sit for a minute before cleaning it off. Use a moisturizer on it too. It could be an allergic reaction to the collar of something you have?
1. Wash it only twice a day, morning and night. Any more irritates the skin and takes away oils it needs to recover.
2. Use a Benzoyl Peroxide 5% product 1-2 times a day.
3. Moisturize immediately after using the cleanser.
4. Don't touch it, don't pick at it, and for gods sake don't scratch it. This is where self-discipline comes in.
5. Take zinc & magnesium supplements. Only 50mg of zinc a day. The magnesium is needed to absorb/synthesize the zinc to make it useable by your body. Zinc essentially helps your body control the production of 'sebum', which when overproduced causes acne.
It's that easy. Try it for 2 weeks. Acne can take acouple weeks to form, so you might not see results for that long.
Hope I could help.
1. Wash it only twice a day, morning and night. Any more irritates the skin and takes away oils it needs to recover.
2. Use a Benzoyl Peroxide 5% product 1-2 times a day.
3. Moisturize immediately after using the cleanser.
4. Don't touch it, don't pick at it, and for gods sake don't scratch it. This is where self-discipline comes in.
5. Take zinc & magnesium supplements. Only 50mg of zinc a day. The magnesium is needed to absorb/synthesize the zinc to make it useable by your body. Zinc essentially helps your body control the production of 'sebum', which when overproduced causes acne.
It's that easy. Try it for 2 weeks. Acne can take acouple weeks to form, so you might not see results for that long.
Hope I could help.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Still haven't tried the hazel stuff, and still have neck acne. Haven't scratched the ****.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cryptkeeper
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have you shaved your head? they could be ingrown hair, like I had the first time I used those stupid 3 blade razors.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Depending on how you get your haircut, some barbers aren't cleaning their clippers.
Some of the black males I know have them, but a few white guys get them as well.
Also, avoid using razors on your next. This could be a sign telling you something.
Some of the black males I know have them, but a few white guys get them as well.
Also, avoid using razors on your next. This could be a sign telling you something.