"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Acne Is a Turn-Off

green69

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So I might this girl online. We talked on MSN and what not then met up after a couple weeks. The date went really well she is very fun and we got along great! We talk all the time and I do like her (and I know she likes me) but the problem is that she has a bad acne problem which is kind of a turn off. She is a naturally beautiful person but all the red pimples and such really brings her looks down.

The thing is that I've always had mild acne but I've been able to drastically reduce it due to using benzoyl peroxide. I've done tons and tons of research and I followed the step by step instructions at acne.org and it greatly improved the clarity of my skin. I just know that if she tried the same procedure she would see great results. She's probably just using that generic OXY clean stuff which is only half as good as benzoyl peroxide.

I'd love to help her out as I have an extra container of it that I can give her...but the issue is how do I bring the topic of her acne up? She is probably already very self conscious as is and I'm not quite sure what to do...

I'm sure some of u will just say "move on" or "find other girls" and I already have been playing the field. I've been dating many different girls lately and I like this one the best so far.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten

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you bring it up in convo, " im estatic!" (why?) "because ever since i switched acne stuff, it is finally going away."(what are you using) yada yada yada "i have tons of it, do you want to try some?" (yes)

you see where it leads
 

Effington

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Nah man, you don't next her because of a minor, temporary skin issue. That's even worse than that high school girl you were mean to that turns out to be the hottie later, because in this case you know she's hot.

I probably wouldn't bring it up; she'll say something eventually. Then you can share how you used to have a serious problem and tell her how you resolved it. Done deal.
 

tsmith2334

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I wouldn't address it yet... even if you try to open with "such and such worked for me", she is probably very concious about her acne and doesn't want to talk it about it...

I also wouldn't let it bother you if she's a catch
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Obsidian

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hate to break it to you, man, but most anti-acne medicines have benzoyl peroxide

If you're really hard-core and you really want your acne to go away, take Acutane. Of course, there's always the possibility that it will kill you. But it helped me alright, and real men do not fear death. :nono:
 

Prodigy746

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Start it like this
green: i have a question to ask you?
girl:What?
green: If i told you that i was putting cream on everynight on my face would you think i am gay?
girl: No, yes etc she will prolly want to know what cream.
green: I use blah blah it really helps my acne out blah blah blah


just go from there.
 

moto

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Trust me she is already self conscious about her self. Don't mention it. I had bad acne and recently finished Accutane course
 
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