"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Acne affects my concentration

B-Real

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I know this may sound kinda stupid. But throughout my latter teens and now I have had acne. Its not bad at all. I mean one every now and then. But for some reason when I have just one or two, and their noticeable, it makes me feel not as on-top-of-the-game as I usually am. They make me wanna stay in the house and not get out and see people, or rather them see me. Its like I usually have a clean face and everyone sees it, and when I get one its like I don't want them to see me. In my head I see them as gross, and unattractive. I know that others may not see it this way and probably don't. But I was wondering if there was another mind set I could have when dealing with this problem. Any help would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJinTraining06

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Hey be happy that u only got 1 or 2. I have tons, i know exactly what u mean times 10. I feel like im literally going insane at times cuz thats all i think about. It has destroyed my self confidence since the age of 13. i also cant focus on stuff. when i have a bad breakout it totally alter my mood. I am all agitated and nasty to my family. And super sensitive about everything. Get a girl to buy u some coverup that matches ur skin color, and if ur secure enuff to buy ur own even better. My sister bought me some and its a life saver. I onyl wanna go out at night soemtimes cuz the girls could prob tell if i had it on during the day. But it really does do wonders. One time i had some big ed pimples and tons of red spots from old ones. In about 10 minutes i carefully put it on all the areas until u cold hardly tell i even had acne. Sounds gay but works.



I know this may sound kinda stupid. But throughout my latter teens and now I have had acne. Its not bad at all. I mean one every now and then. But for some reason when I have just one or two, and their noticeable, it makes me feel not as on-top-of-the-game as I usually am. They make me wanna stay in the house and not get out and see people, or rather them see me. Its like I usually have a clean face and everyone sees it, and when I get one its like I don't want them to see me. In my head I see them as gross, and unattractive. I know that others may not see it this way and probably don't. But I was wondering if there was another mind set I could have when dealing with this problem. Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]
 

Phat

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Dude. I have used ClearPores before and the acne cleared up in a few days havnt had to use it since www.clearpores.com
 

B-Real

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I guess I am taking it too far. I am just self concious about my face I guess. I have always been like that. I use proactiv and it works, but every so often I will get a couple. I need to grow up I reckon.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cuzza

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I've never had acne, but I did get a few spots when I was about 12. I used Zindaclin, was very effective for 6 months until you become immune to it.

Still get the odd spots now and again, but it's usually caused by my **** diet, haha. Shaving daily irritates the hell outta them as well...
 
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