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Acknowledging her effort

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Just curious if you guys ever do this?

Ex. You mention to a girl that she looks better with her hair down and the next time you see her she says hey I wore my hair down for you.

This is different than her asking if she looks good. I will normally respond with something like "I like that you're paying attention" and a smile.

If you go CF or neg I think you're just doing it for no reason. She's qualifying herself and if you acknowledge it, she gets a thrill from pleasing you.

What do you guys think?
 

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She's qualifying herself and if you acknowledge it, she gets a thrill from pleasing you.
That right there is it I think.

Telling a girl something like she looks better with her hair down and the next time you see her she wears hey I wore my hair down for you, that's probably one of the strongest green lights you can get since it means she looks up to you.
 
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I'll acknowledge what she does that I like and want her to do more often. This is known as shaping. I won't over acknowledge though because I don't want to come off as being too impressed by her.
 
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