ACDC is fukking up

[Docs]

I need people beyond my level of knowledge to help me with this.... let's see what we can do to help me out.

I can get any girl's number very easily. I can get girls to like me very easily. I get by on my looks and charm more than anything else.

After takin a girl out a few times, they end up not really wanting to go out with me. Dates are always fun and I always get them laughing and feeling really special... but after a few dates, they seem to lose interest. I would normally say its the girl... but when it happens with like the last 7-8 girls I realize it's probably something I'm doing...

I think I'm maybe:
- too intent on her calling me often
- calling too much? (once a day or soemthing)
- not sure how fast to move along with sexual stuff
- not sure how to bring up going out (i feel that I shouldnt until she does)
- I'm a tad pushy about stuff I want
- I'm not entirely sure what she wants to hear
- making it too easy for them

I want a girl to KEEP, i've let some total BABES go because I don't know how to hang on to them. I don't really know what to do after the initial first date.

Help a brother out... and I'll post pictures of the female that dropped me later.

I don't know why I never posted a reply to this. Sorry bud, here I go.

I'm no guru at this, but I know that for order for a relationship to be successful, you have to connect with them, which I think is where you're going wrong. Spend some time with them, not a date. I think what needs to happen is you need to connect with someone compatible to you that shares interests likes yours. Just one day, call up one of those girls and ask if you can hang out with her. Once you get there...this might be completely off-ball, but don't ...don't...touch her.

o0, here come zee flames

Onwards...I said that because this is something that doesn't require touching, it requires a mental connection, if you both cook, you can show each other wicked recipes and you can spend more time in each other's cooking. If you both read excessively, you can talk for hours about books. If she's into something else you like, go with it and share the experience.

This isnt' about being the PUA at this point, you have that part down pat. You now wish for a keeper, the rules change from now. You still get her in, but now, it's the connection you need to have her become yours.

I hope this helped ACDC

 

[Oxide]

Let me ask you this, have you slept with any of these girls?

 

[Jester]

no touching = afraid of touching - afraid of touching = afc - afc = masturbate


so what youre really saying is, only touch yourself


something to do differently?

do everything differently. you need to think differently

its not, "how can i get her to like me?"

it is, "why should i like her?"

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by Docs
I don't know why I never posted a reply to this. Sorry bud, here I go.

I'm no guru at this, but I know that for order for a relationship to be successful, you have to connect with them, which I think is where you're going wrong. Spend some time with them, not a date. I think what needs to happen is you need to connect with someone compatible to you that shares interests likes yours. Just one day, call up one of those girls and ask if you can hang out with her. Once you get there...this might be completely off-ball, but don't ...don't...touch her.

o0, here come zee flames

Onwards...I said that because this is something that doesn't require touching, it requires a mental connection, if you both cook, you can show each other wicked recipes and you can spend more time in each other's cooking. If you both read excessively, you can talk for hours about books. If she's into something else you like, go with it and share the experience.

This isnt' about being the PUA at this point, you have that part down pat. You now wish for a keeper, the rules change from now. You still get her in, but now, it's the connection you need to have her become yours.

I hope this helped ACDC

So that in order to be a "keeper", it's gonna take a lot of failure with other girls till I find one I click with, right?

I like what you said about the connections.

I agree with Jester's notion because it's true. But after initial talking, I'm not sure how to progress sometimes. Maybe it's just "supposed to happen", or something? I'll keep trying different ways and letting you guys know. Thanks!

 

[Docs]

Not necessarlly failures in that sense. Yeah, you'll burn though a few more at least, but to connect, you have to turn off all of the rules and play a different game.

It's not going to happen quickly, that's another thing that sucks about this. All you have to do..is enjoy everyone that you are with, and find a level where you both can relate on. If you have the attraction, and you can obtain the connection, it all fits in.

 

[Haboob]

I'm surprised AC/DC needs help... and even more surprised that I'm trying to give him a little advice.

no touching = afraid of touching - afraid of touching = afc - afc = masturbate

Maybe... But I think he has already said he has no problem getting laid.

you have to connect with them, which I think is where you're going wrong. Spend some time with them, not a date. I think what needs to happen is you need to connect with someone compatible to you that shares interests likes yours.

Remember in girlfriend there still is "friend". From what I can tell (and it is most probably true because I did learn it from TV ) to have a long relationship you have to be really good friends with the girl as well. Well... Sounds stupid I know but what I'm trying to say is that I agree with Docs on the interests thing.

 

[Void]

Your thinking too much. Girls are meant to be fun, used, and taken for granted. Your calling everyday? I thought you knew better man

 

[Docs]

Your thinking too much. Girls are meant to be fun, used, and taken for granted. Your calling everyday? I thought you knew better man

What world do YOU live in? The differences between the young and the old.