"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Accutane and bulking

Sir Lancelot

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Hi guys,

How many of you guys are on accutane and are successfully bulking right now, or have done it before?

I started my course in June and tried to stick w/ the lifting but just couldn't keep up. Seemed like my muscles took a lot longer to heal and repair themselves.

I think I might wait until my course is over and then start up again, but I really wanted to bulk over the summer when I have some free time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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Bone and muscle problems. Accutane may affect bones, muscles, and ligaments and cause pain in your joints or muscles. Tell your prescriber if you plan vigorous physical activity during treatment with Accutane. Tell your prescriber if you develop pain, particularly back pain or joint pain. There are reports that some patients have had stunted growth after taking Accutane for acne as directed. There are also some reports of broken bones or reduced healing of broken bones after taking Accutane for acne as directed. No one knows if taking Accutane for acne will affect your bones. If you have a broken bone, tell your provider that you are taking Accutane. Muscle weakness with or without pain can be a sign of serious muscle damage. If this happens, stop taking Accutane and call your prescriber right away.
http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/accutane/medicationguide.htm
 

snintel

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man, accutane just keeps racking up the side effects. i'd stay away from that ****, i'd rather have acne.
 

Sir Lancelot

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Thanks for the link diablo. I was only lifting on accutane for 2 weeks or so, and I haven't really noticed any extended muscle weakness so I'm probably fine.

I will put lifting on hold for a little while.

snintel, I'd much rather go through with the accutane than have the acne. I've tried everything on the block for acne, and accutane is the only thing that's ever worked.
 

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accutane couses permanent side effects i hear about people who cant lift wieghts anymore couse of accutane
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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quest

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i've done a full course of accutane..
had about a year off
acne returned.

i'm on my second course of accutane, and i'm lifting.

i have no issues.

i don't think its caused any permanent side effects (i was 100% back to normal when i was off accutane) and right now i'm almost finished my 2nd course, and all i've got is dry lips, lip balm, the magic cure. and dry skin, moisturiser, how did i live without you before?

its not that bad of a drug.
 

quest

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Originally posted by eLMac
2 words Glycolic Acid.

i read them, but i don't understand them?
-details?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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