"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Accountability Challenge: Getting over fear of beauty.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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So here's my approach.
Tall tan leggy green eyed Anna kournikova look alike wearing tiny shorts waiting on the train.
Instant boner. That's how I tell myself to get over insecurities because I've dated chicks who weren't instant hard ons...and that sucks.
So...she looks at me twice. OK...I ask to sit next to her on the train...she's polite
She says yes.
Yadda yadda...she's 22... Visiting a friend. Obviously all hot young girls are out bull****ting on a weekday at 1 pm.
It was my day off so yea...I'm out bullshiiting also.
I don't really get the fear. I mean...if she's hot. She can be bitchy shrew, nice enough, or just ignore you.
Girls who were beautiful as young girls and through adult have their love of family instilled in them. They can be humble about it.
Bitchy girls had boob jobs, make up, haters, etc.
Cold girls just don't care about their looks cuz of some bad experiences.
In short. Yea...I tried for the number, she's just visiting...so I got the I.g. and fb.
Which is shyt.
Having a throbbing dyck while talking to her and her noticing it and not caring is fun enough. I know she was wetttttt.
But yea. That's one for me. Next one...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.