"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AustinG

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well last night i went out with this girl hb9 id consider and last year i swore to myself i would get this girl that year or this year and i ended up getting her. i did somthing afc by talking to her on the phone for alot longer than 5 minutes. it ended up being a hour.. TWICE! she is breaking up with her bf for me...this just reminds me how i can get any girl i want :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Since we DJs (I'm a wannabe, but hopefully getting there), are level headed creatures, I'd we a bit wary, since that might mean that should could break up with YOU for another guy.. Unless this other dude was a complete buster, and/or she's inlove with you etc, then more power to you :)
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AustinG

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i dunno the kid but they was on an off for 2 years but 6 months or so sierous then she said she just doesnt have feelins for him no more so she is gonna break up with him and she has been givin me hints an **** but she was tryin to put on a ***** sheild when i started talkin 2 her an she ended up puttin it down then last nite we was at the excersism of emily rose movie and she was holding my hand because she was "scared" but after the movie we went to kmart to get some stuff an we was holdin hands an me an her ended up kissing for like 4-5 seconds but not makin out becuase i wasnt gonna give it to her yet she gotta work for it..
 
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