"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this is an old story just popped in my head today.

I invited a girl I was banging to a party once, hung out for awhile walked her to her car an accidentally said: alright good night “I LOVE YOU”. I absolutely did not love her but I was so used to saying Goodbye to my ex that way, it just slipped out as repetition haha.

So I’m instantly like “oh sh!t” in my head.... two seconds of awkward silence went by before I laughed it off punched her in the arm and said just kidding!!

Walked away thinking to myself “holy sh!t what the fvck.... “ Went back to the party and a different girl started throwing herself at me. I ended up banging her that night and because I used to believe in NOT spinning plates I broke it off with the first girl that I accidentally said I love you to.

Pretty fvcked up. Deservingly ended up with zero pvssy shortly after that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think the best way to recover from that would be to say it in a joking manner the next time you see her. Example: Love you giiiirl or Love that ass too.
 
Stallionstud

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For sure, stunned myself that time. It’s never happened again. Few close calls
 
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Good story.

This brought back some memories that I've buried in the deepest pit of my mind.

God, the stupidest things I did when I was a tadpole.
 
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