"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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accidentally forgot about girl, now not talking to me

dudewut

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Last year
-initial meeting, got the number, was texting with each other
-ask her out, twice
-she flakes, twice (this is when I started looking for answers and found sosuave) and gave me some bullcrap excuses
-learned some materials, ok be cool with her, gave her a playful nickname when I see her round campus, but be civil

This year
-bump into each other, didnt recognize me
-still goes to the same University
-asks her what she is doing after going to enrollment services
-she says "absolutely nothing" and I should text her to maybe meet up or w/e
-I said ok
-Forgot to text her (LOL...saw another girl)
-Saw her last Sunday, tried to say hi, she ignored me

......what do? lololol well i guess I (accidentally) exacted my revenge
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gaspipe

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Who cares? she flaked twice on you already so what makes you think shes not just looking for attention?
 

dudewut

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Meh. It was not such a big deal, but its just funny how things ended up

and I have to admit, I felt some sort of sick satisfaction when I realized what I have done
 

Johnnyventana

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I love the accidental revenge!

100 bucks if you run into her at a party down the road, you'll end up pounding her.
 

dudewut

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Johnnyventana said:
I love the accidental revenge!

100 bucks if you run into her at a party down the road, you'll end up pounding her.
really? i kind have a feeling she hates my guts now, but then again nothing seems logical to women
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PapiChulo

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It's all for the best imho. See, when you are preoccupied with other womenyou could not care less, so default you did the right thing! I can put 100 bucks on that she was looking for attention - that's why she is pissed like a spoiled girl for not receiving it.
 

The_411

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This type of girl wants to have guys fawning over her but the only guys that will bag her are the ones that don't care for her garbage. She's angry because you're not falling prey to her manipulations.

Remember anger = emotion which means she cares. So when a girl gets angry it's actually a good thing (well most of the time).

Now continue to work on other women.
 

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Love you OP but you came off totally weak with this chick. One blowoff should mean you never converse with her again unless she initiates it. All the other stuff cemented you as an Omega in her eyes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PapiChulo

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The funny thing I ve just noticed: "she didnt recognize you" , well, she simply pretended to not recognize you in order to avoid you? In fact she may just be a b!tch.
 
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