"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Accessible hobbies in college?

bensimsJYG

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I'm a freshman in college (almost a sophomore now), and I realized I don't have many hobbies. I spend most of my time working on classwork or going to the gym. This has paid off so far, as I have a 4.0 in electrical engineering and am in decent shape. There are a lot of things I'd like to learn (sailing, flying, shooting, investing), but they really aren't accessible right now. What are some hobbies you guys enjoy that are accessible for a college student?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

dustmuffin

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I'm a freshman in college (almost a sophomore now), and I realized I don't have many hobbies. I spend most of my time working on classwork or going to the gym. This has paid off so far, as I have a 4.0 in electrical engineering and am in decent shape. There are a lot of things I'd like to learn (sailing, flying, shooting, investing), but they really aren't accessible right now. What are some hobbies you guys enjoy that are accessible for a college student?
Your college should have all kinds of clubs that you can join. I would look into that.
 

Von

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Kickboxing
Golf
Salsa
Gym
VideoGame clubs
Model UN

Check the list, pick the ones available in schedule... recommending ''social ones''
 

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Martial arts is probably available. You can learn a lot and have a ball with airsoft competition, too.
 
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