Acceptable date idea?

[Long2024]

On Sunday I'm going to a brunch in honor of one of my politician friends, and I'm considering inviting a certain girl. However, she may not realize I'm asking for a date unless I make it painfully explicit, since she has recently been hired by my organization and may view it as just another of these events we have to send representatives to in order to make sure we have good standing in the community. It's important for her to know that is what I'm asking for because
1) I plan to make a move w/o facing sexual harassment charges, and
2) if I don't hurry things a bit I'll face stiff competition from guys more skilled at seduction than I am.
So, do I invite her or find something next weekend that would more clearly be a date?

 

[nishbuk]

If there are going to be alot of people that you know there, then it's not a good date idea.
The major signal that tells a girl you are on a DATE, is when the interaction is just YOU and HER without anyone else that either of you know.

If you wanted to turn it into a date, then ask her to do something after:
Dinner, skating, walk along harbor or park, etc...
Then you can make a move when you have her isolated from her friends, and your friends.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Originally posted by nishbuk
If there are going to be alot of people that you know there, then it's not a good date idea.
The major signal that tells a girl you are on a DATE, is when the interaction is just YOU and HER without anyone else that either of you know.

If you wanted to turn it into a date, then ask her to do something after:
Dinner, skating, walk along harbor or park, etc...
Then you can make a move when you have her isolated from her friends, and your friends.

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[Bible_Belt]

Don't do the quasi-work date. And don't date her if you are her superior at work. You are just asking for sexual harassment charges.