"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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On Sunday I'm going to a brunch in honor of one of my politician friends, and I'm considering inviting a certain girl. However, she may not realize I'm asking for a date unless I make it painfully explicit, since she has recently been hired by my organization and may view it as just another of these events we have to send representatives to in order to make sure we have good standing in the community. It's important for her to know that is what I'm asking for because
1) I plan to make a move w/o facing sexual harassment charges, and
2) if I don't hurry things a bit I'll face stiff competition from guys more skilled at seduction than I am.
So, do I invite her or find something next weekend that would more clearly be a date?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If there are going to be alot of people that you know there, then it's not a good date idea.
The major signal that tells a girl you are on a DATE, is when the interaction is just YOU and HER without anyone else that either of you know.

If you wanted to turn it into a date, then ask her to do something after:
Dinner, skating, walk along harbor or park, etc...
Then you can make a move when you have her isolated from her friends, and your friends.
 
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Originally posted by nishbuk
If there are going to be alot of people that you know there, then it's not a good date idea.
The major signal that tells a girl you are on a DATE, is when the interaction is just YOU and HER without anyone else that either of you know.

If you wanted to turn it into a date, then ask her to do something after:
Dinner, skating, walk along harbor or park, etc...
Then you can make a move when you have her isolated from her friends, and your friends.
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Don't do the quasi-work date. And don't date her if you are her superior at work. You are just asking for sexual harassment charges.
 
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