"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheWanderer

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I'm just wondering, what do ya'll think about ppl with accents? I mean, cus even though I was born in wisconsin, my mom is mexican and my dad is italian, so they have like the thickest accents ever, and I couldnt help it but get an accent like a combination of their two accents as I was growing up.

It seems like at times this accent holds me back, because I'm afraid of saying something because I know I'll sound weird. And its the same way when I'm with girls, it seems to hold me back. I mean, its not an accent as thick as fez's (70s show), but still an accent.

Idk, I've heard girls find accents sexy too, but, I guess its only a few of em. So, idk, what should I do? It seems im afraid of talking sometimes, I hate it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by TheWanderer
I'm just wondering, what do ya'll think about ppl with accents? I mean, cus even though I was born in wisconsin, my mom is mexican and my dad is italian, so they have like the thickest accents ever, and I couldnt help it but get an accent like a combination of their two accents as I was growing up.

It seems like at times this accent holds me back, because I'm afraid of saying something because I know I'll sound weird. And its the same way when I'm with girls, it seems to hold me back. I mean, its not an accent as thick as fez's (70s show), but still an accent.

Idk, I've heard girls find accents sexy too, but, I guess its only a few of em. So, idk, what should I do? It seems im afraid of talking sometimes, I hate it.

Well, some girl once told me that she found my french accent really sexy, and that with my low voice she was really turned on .... so, I guess depending on the combination of your voice tone and your accent/pronunciation, the ladies might or might not really like it. Anyways, the accent is part of you : do not hide it, be proud of it. It shows you have an interesting past, so this might be good at creating the initial interest in the girl ... All that to say that, although you might find it weird, others might find it cool, so don't hide it, and don't feel ashamed because of it : wear it proudly.
 

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I'm guessing somewhere inbetween Kenosha an Milwaukee.

You could be a LK Mafia mix. dealdy as hell.

Girls like accents it sets you appart. roll with the flow and flow with the rolls.

If it really is holding you back you could consider speech therapy. Look it up in the Yellow pages'

If you got the Mexican accent you could always pretend to be related to Cheech

If your too cheap for speech therapy there are books on it. You just say phrases' over and over again till you fix the messed up accents'. Takes a month or so. Hope to help:D
 

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Since your new I'll also post the fact that maybe it's not your accent but the way you come across with your accent. You seem no to like it. Therefore it could make you seem shy and meek because of the way you act because of it.

If you ignore it there's a high chance every one else will
 
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