"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Abusive alpha-males can get away with a lot?

ThisNThat

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This is interesting. A recent article cropped up regarding a popular, downtown radio personality that has gotten away with his abusiveness.

http://www.centralfloridapost.com/2...-rollins-abused-me-my-message-to-other-women/

She states how how his boss has even turned a blind eye to his abusiveness to his women and now she put it up in a regional posting. Who knows if his ex will wind up being nailed for slander or not.

But she said that likely due to high ratings, the powers that at the station keep him around. Shes urging the locals to call the station to take action against his behavior.

But this guy is a known narcissistic jerk-wad. . I think they met at a gym or something and the rest was history. He has probably about 2 or 3 divorces under his belt and he looks like he's 500 miles of hard road.

Anyway, apparently she will be making future posts, breaking down what happened to her and encourages others to notify the station of this unacceptable behavior. She's even posting screenshots of chat conversations on Facebook as a message of warning to all abusees.

My question is...basically...does being alpha could also include being abusive? I think yes...sometimes. If so, why does his employer keep him around? They are just enabling his behavior, right?

Kind of like Donald Trump and his behavior. If I ever did such a thing, and it went public....I'd get fired or at least, not employed if they found out during an interview.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You'll be surprised what you can get away with if you are charismatic/popular enough. It all depends how you project yourself. Sometimes people let other people get away with saying things they wish they could say themselves. I work closely with a guy that is constantly being an AHOLE to everyone and calling people out, I like it because people are always paying attention to him and leave me alone. It serves me. When i'm at work I just want to finish my day and go home, I save the attention whoring for casual settings with women.
 
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