I know the 'blackpill' and 'redpill' guys are always ranting about how online dating is supposedly giving subpar women overwhelming choice, skewing the dating market blah blah blah.
I'm starting to get back into the social scene and am seeing very encouraging signs. In fact, things are going so well, I'd say the tide is turning back in the opposite direction with a vengeance! There is a lot of pent up desire among women to socialize and quite frankly, digital "likes" and emoji's only go so far. There's no substitute for IRL socializing.
Recently, I got a glimpse of what it's like to deal with abundance, and it's almost overwhelming. Theoretically, women who date online become jaded and just stop responding to men because they have "too many" options. I found myself in a similar spot with so many woman to choose between and so many social contacts to follow up on it almost felt like a job. I was just thinking of how many times I'd have to check back on my phone and computer times x number of women and it seemed almost preposterous.
You can't just narrow it down to one or two favorites either since you never know if they'll respond back so you are forced back into a spam strategy anyway. Also, you don't want to let any opportunities slide either. I've gotten back to a few gals but procrastinating with quite a few others.
Gentlemen, the tide is turning. The opportunities are here right now.
I'm starting to get back into the social scene and am seeing very encouraging signs. In fact, things are going so well, I'd say the tide is turning back in the opposite direction with a vengeance! There is a lot of pent up desire among women to socialize and quite frankly, digital "likes" and emoji's only go so far. There's no substitute for IRL socializing.
Recently, I got a glimpse of what it's like to deal with abundance, and it's almost overwhelming. Theoretically, women who date online become jaded and just stop responding to men because they have "too many" options. I found myself in a similar spot with so many woman to choose between and so many social contacts to follow up on it almost felt like a job. I was just thinking of how many times I'd have to check back on my phone and computer times x number of women and it seemed almost preposterous.
You can't just narrow it down to one or two favorites either since you never know if they'll respond back so you are forced back into a spam strategy anyway. Also, you don't want to let any opportunities slide either. I've gotten back to a few gals but procrastinating with quite a few others.
Gentlemen, the tide is turning. The opportunities are here right now.