Abundance mindset mentality

[Clockwerk50]

@Clockwerk50 saw this in provider-type men who were being disrespected by their women, yet still chose to stay in the relationship, using lines like “I wouldn’t cheat on you, even though I could” as a form of intimidation.


They kept focusing on their careers and personal goals, even while staying in relationships where they weren’t being respected.


And because they seemed to adopt an abundance mindset without setting boundaries or demanding respect from their women, they ended up facing a lot of **** tests, just like @New_Journey mentioned.

I actually wrote a long post earlier, but ended up deleting it because I included some text messages and, honestly, it didn’t feel right, I don’t want to risk being doxed over something that personal.

That said, here were the main points I was trying to make:

1. I’m not setting any relationship boundaries because I’m not in a relationship with her. I’m not trying to control her behaviour.
2. Women tend to “**** test” when their needs aren’t being met. In this case, it’s likely because I haven’t prioritized her since I have other options, and my schedule is packed. That naturally creates insecurity.

The men you are describing were probably being tested for similar reasons, mostly due to emotional neglect or being overly focused on their careers at the expense of other things.

 

[MatureDJ]

@Clockwerk50“I wouldn’t cheat on you, even though I could” as a form of intimidation.

I think that if I were on a murder charge jury, and it came out that the defendant had killed his woman because she had said this to him, I would practice jury nullification.

 

[BadBoy89]

Sexual needs from a physiological standpoint are certainly valid, but sex just for sake of sex and conquest for sake of conquest is going to get old after a while. It will not bring fulfillment.

What will bring fulfillment?

 

[BeExcellent]

What will bring fulfillment?

Purpose. Find your purpose. It is internal to you and will be lined up with your values.