"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone noticed that girls that are aware of their status to be inferior to yours will find a way to turn you down just for validation.

For instance, a girl will notice you in her social setting and will make it really easy for you to approach her but when you do they turn you down.

Not speaking from just personal experience but from what I've noticed lately.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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youngprodigy said:
Anyone noticed that girls that are aware of their status to be inferior to yours will find a way to turn you down just for validation.

For instance, a girl will notice you in her social setting and will make it really easy for you to approach her but when you do they turn you down.

Not speaking from just personal experience but from what I've noticed lately.
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Yea it's protecting her ego. This is specifically mentioned in The Mystery Method.

Like a girl telling George Clooney "you're not my type" while she's homeless.
 
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I think we all have a tendancy to do this at times. Specficially with meeting women, it's important to hang in there so to speak when first getting to know a woman and let her get an idea of your personality and get her to open up. The ice queen then turns into a normal human being who enjoys getting to know an interesting and fun person, just like we all do.
 
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Ive experienced this recently while waiting for my car to get fixed at a dealership. Her and i were in the lobby and i asked what car she drove, told her my story about getting stranded etc.

She went silent and was cordial but closed off. Which was fine with me. I played it cool..some random asian dude came in and gave me advice on my car and he left. I decided not to continue my convo with her...seconds pass and out of the blue she starts talking about random song playing in the lobby.

At that point i knew i was in and had won her over..started cracking jokes and ice queen turned friendly.
 
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