JohnyTheArrow
Senior Don Juan
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- Nov 17, 2014
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Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
You have power only over yourself, power over other people is only assumed.
If you stick to this rule you will never be damaged by other people because you knew you can't control them.If you can't control them you automatically assume that cheating or brutal dumping may happen.You are prepared.How can you go through heartbreake if you knew it may happen ? Dumping hurts because you didn't expect it, you assumed your total and infinite control over other person which is pretty much impossible.
If you go into any relationship you should also assume the impossible - the end and be mentally ready when it comes.What will happen if she leaves ? The plan what to do and how to go through should be ready.
You have power only over yourself, power over other people is only assumed.
If you stick to this rule you will never be damaged by other people because you knew you can't control them.If you can't control them you automatically assume that cheating or brutal dumping may happen.You are prepared.How can you go through heartbreake if you knew it may happen ? Dumping hurts because you didn't expect it, you assumed your total and infinite control over other person which is pretty much impossible.
If you go into any relationship you should also assume the impossible - the end and be mentally ready when it comes.What will happen if she leaves ? The plan what to do and how to go through should be ready.