"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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skinnyguy

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So here's what I'm confused about.

A lot of the "veteran" posters on SOS will come on here and say that women are vindictive, btchy, etc etc but then they will talk about how you need to work out and approach in order to get a woman.

Am I the only one seeing the contradiction?

I guess they'll say that women are only good for "sex and reproduction", but if they hate women so much they should be avoiding them like the plague, right?

I mean you're going to go through all that trouble just to bust a nut? Just masturbate if you think women are so much trouble.

It seems a lot of guys on here are in their 20's and pretty immature. They don't understand that if you're 40 and single, you'll be depressed and on SOS all the time.

I'm not saying give your balls to women, but rather, relationships CAN be a healthy thing and in fact can put your life in the right direction. Sure, plenty of people are getting divorced, but I see plenty of people staying together and thriving. My parents have been together 35 years and I can't imagine what life would have been like for me if they weren't together. If you really do believe that reproduction is important, you'll want a wife (in my opinion). If you want to reproduce and have motherless children, well, I feel sorry for your offspring.

Personally, I do not care if I have kids or not, but I don't want to be 40 or 50 and single. That sounds incredibly depressing to me. If you're trying to go to the bars at 50 there's something REALLY wrong with you and I don't ever want to be in that position.

Saying that women are evil is easy. Actually trying to have a serious relationship with a woman is difficult. It seems that some guys want to take the easy route.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CJ 101

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Skinnyguy you're just a confused beta fag, why do you still post on this forum ?? Do you even approach females? ? When was the last time you got laid ??? You're a confused little kid who knows nothing about women. Seriously, the Manginas sho sometimes post on this forum, Gosh !!!!!!
 

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My bipolar ex accused me of making our relationship toxic yet I seem to recall being 100% honest and catching her in many small and major lies.

Some women are so messed up that they cannot even admit (or see) that every relationship they go into seems to fail and that it is not the new person's fault. I got blamed for every single wrong in the relationship too.
 

skinnyguy

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CJ 101 said:
Skinnyguy you're just a confused beta fag, why do you still post on this forum ?? Do you even approach females? ? When was the last time you got laid ??? You're a confused little kid who knows nothing about women. Seriously, the Manginas sho sometimes post on this forum, Gosh !!!!!!

If you were successful with women, you wouldn't be on this forum. sit down son.
 

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skinnyguy said:
If you were successful with women, you wouldn't be on this forum. sit down son.

Listen kid, i'm on this forum because i love sharing ideas and getting tips from like minded players, i'm a successful accountant from Chicago and i get chicks. As i'm writing this it's 1:23pm in Chicago on Saturday and i've just woke up with my main plate right next to me. I've met a couple of dudes from the forum face to face and probably the best hands down as far as having game has to be SOLOMON. I can personally vouch for that dude because i hung out with him in Chicago. Now as for you Skinnyguy you still strike me as a young kid who knows nothing about women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CJ 101 said:
Listen kid, i'm on this forum because i love sharing ideas and getting tips from like minded players, i'm a successful accountant from Chicago and i get chicks. As i'm writing this it's 1:23pm in Chicago on Saturday and i've just woke up with my main plate right next to me. I've met a couple of dudes from the forum face to face and probably the best hands down as far as having game has to be SOLOMON. I can personally vouch for that dude because i hung out with him in Chicago. Now as for you Skinnyguy you still strike me as a young kid who knows nothing about women.

I could have woken up next to a 350 pounder as well, but I chose not to. Your lay count means nothing - it sounds like you're the inexperienced one here.

Could you please either answer the question in the post, or refrain from making personal attacks.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I could have woken up next to a 350 pounder as well, but I chose not to. Your lay count means nothing - it sounds like you're the inexperienced one here.

Could you please either answer the question in the post, or refrain from making personal attacks.

A 350 pounder ??? I've never been with a female who was over 130 pounds. As far as females go looks are very important to me. I date and smash beautiful chicks. Start writing intelligent posts and for a change just get off the forum and start approaching chicks, that's the only way you'll lose your virginity.
 

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If you even believe for a second that masturbation is better than sex because of the drama women bring, then you must be a virgin.

I'm not a veteran by any means, but women are vindictive and *****y, that being said, there are quality girls out there. There are also girls out there who are there to be used for sex. If you're a true DJ then you understand this, you bang the girls you want and then if you find a quality girl and want to settle down you do so.

Just because a lot of women are crazy doesn't mean you should masturbate, a real man doesn't get invested in the crazies and lives his life the way he wants.

Enjoy your hands.
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
If you even believe for a second that masturbation is better than sex because of the drama women bring, then you must be a virgin.

I'm not a veteran by any means, but women are vindictive and *****y, that being said, there are quality girls out there. There are also girls out there who are there to be used for sex. If you're a true DJ then you understand this, you bang the girls you want and then if you find a quality girl and want to settle down you do so.

Just because a lot of women are crazy doesn't mean you should masturbate, a real man doesn't get invested in the crazies and lives his life the way he wants.

Enjoy your hands.



True
 

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A quality US girl will cost you 100k per year, and each kid is another 50k per year. Are they worth that to you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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