About Virginity

[Climax]

Agreed...

Originally posted by fuzzx
You never truly lose your virginity till you've slept with a girl from brazil.

lol.... wanna explain further? In more detail? ... What makes u say that? (eventhough i heard the same, and i know they are rather god looking women) ...

... But yeah... i have not yet had sex with a woman from Brazil, but i've done other things with them.. and i do admitt, that they ARE good lovers.. well.. at least the ones I've been with In my opinion they have great "sex-appeal" compared to most other women that i have met/bee with, and i also find them to be rather romantic ....

But whats YOUR reason for saying that?


Laterz...

 

[Fumbduck]

Caldus: My friends have all lost their virginity...i'm the only one in the crew who hasn't gone that extra distance (yet). They all respect my decision, and most of them...not all, but the majority would have liked their first time to be with someone who they truly cared about.

Whistler had a good point, "For me, you can't really have an intimate relationship without regular sex."

^^I think that's very true...it is possible not to, but if you really 'love' the girl and are being intimate, sex will automatically happen. For you and I, we've never been in love...so it's hard to imagine.

 

[borntoblossom]

Caldus

So let me see if I got this right...

You`re 19 and still a virgin and cool with it...You're dating a girl who "was a virgin too which surprised me since she's fairly attractive"...

I`m a little lost here...

Do you really think virgins are just ugly people that can`t get laid?

 

[wiggadude]

I don't think you've really lost your virginity until you've had sex with someone who has AIDS.

 

[Caldus]

Re: Caldus

Originally posted by borntoblossom
So let me see if I got this right...

You`re 19 and still a virgin and cool with it...You're dating a girl who "was a virgin too which surprised me since she's fairly attractive"...

I`m a little lost here...

Do you really think virgins are just ugly people that can`t get laid?

Well most good looking girls lose their virginity pretty quickly right? I didn't mean to imply that virgins are just ugly people who can't get laid.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Yeah Im also 20 and still a virgin, I think it sucks pretty bad because I know that if anybody finds out Im never gonna get laid.

 

[borntoblossom]

Re: Caldus

I think you got it all wrong. Loosing your virginity has very little to do with the way you look.

Every man can get laid if he wants to (even if he has to pay for it..lol )..and hell, it`s a lot easier for a woman to get laid if she wants to!
If you`re a woman and you`re the ugliest thing ever you`d still find a guy willing to put a paper bag on your head and still do you

My point is it’s a matter of choice. Loosing your virginity is easy, keeping it is a lot harder. So the question is what do you want?

Do whatever works for you, because it is YOUR life and you should live it the way you want to, no matter what everybody else thinks.

 

[Andromax]

Pheonix,

You oughta play that card.

Girls will want to corrupt "you" .

I mean if you are totally AFC, it aint gonna help you.

But if you are smooth, and a virgin, chicks will want to pop your cherry bro. Dont be so ashamed of it.

Just a funny thought...


I told my girlfriend that popped my cherry that I had been with 2 other chicks.

She asked me again after the first time we had sex about something, and I came clean about that being the first time.

Her exact words "oh that explains a lot."

I guess I didnt have the motion down just right back then

Good thing I was great at oral, because I did manage to get her to orgasm so she had fun.

To be honest, I was a little disapointed. I thought the freakin fireworks would go off. Nope. Maybe it was the pressure, or something but it was a bit of an anticlimax.

Sex is only as good as you make it, otherwise its just a warm hole..

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Originally posted by Andromax
Pheonix,

You oughta play that card.

Girls will want to corrupt "you" .

I mean if you are totally AFC, it aint gonna help you.

But if you are smooth, and a virgin, chicks will want to pop your cherry bro. Dont be so ashamed of it.

Just a funny thought...


I told my girlfriend that popped my cherry that I had been with 2 other chicks.

She asked me again after the first time we had sex about something, and I came clean about that being the first time.

Her exact words "oh that explains a lot."

I guess I didnt have the motion down just right back then

Good thing I was great at oral, because I did manage to get her to orgasm so she had fun.

To be honest, I was a little disapointed. I thought the freakin fireworks would go off. Nope. Maybe it was the pressure, or something but it was a bit of an anticlimax.

Sex is only as good as you make it, otherwise its just a warm hole..

Thats a funny story, but I think Ill keep my ****ing mouth shut.

 

[sfalexi]

Pheonix,

You oughta play that card.

Girls will want to corrupt "you" .

I mean if you are totally AFC, it aint gonna help you.

But if you are smooth, and a virgin, chicks will want to pop your cherry bro. Dont be so ashamed of it.

According to my co-worker, he was virgin to his first four or five girls.

Alexi

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Originally posted by sfalexi
According to my co-worker, he was virgin to his first four or five girls.

Alexi

Was he 20?

 

[mistyc]

Get reaaaaaaal,

no matter how much you think it's your decision to be a virgin, no matter how much you think it's the good thing, YOU WANT TO RIDE SOME PUZZY.....RIGHT NOW! The desire is there, and your "decision" to stay a virgin until you have sex with "someone you love" is society-driven, from movies and books and feminazis and so on.

Think about it really hard, figure out where all these influences come from, WHY you think that way, and let's see if you really wanna be a virgin or if you wanna **** like a rabbit.

 

[sfalexi]

Don't know. He never said what age he was. But I think it was over 21 because I seem to remember him saying he used it in bars.

If it bothers you THAT much, make up a stupid story about how you have had sex in the past with a very significant girlfriend, but haven't had sex in a long time since then. They won't 'hold it against you' for being a virgin (cause they'll think you're not), and they'll understand if you're quick or just seem 'out of practice'.

Alexi

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Originally posted by sfalexi
Don't know. He never said what age he was. But I think it was over 21 because I seem to remember him saying he used it in bars.

If it bothers you THAT much, make up a stupid story about how you have had sex in the past with a very significant girlfriend, but haven't had sex in a long time since then. They won't 'hold it against you' for being a virgin (cause they'll think you're not), and they'll understand if you're quick or just seem 'out of practice'.

Alexi

Thats my plan anyway, exactly that.