"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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about to last minute cancel on this girl

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the history between me and this person is complicated but in the short i'm about to cancel on this chick plans to goto an amusement park something she's probably lookin foward to.

its more a money thing but i'm gonna spin it and basiclly say lets just go after your vacation. i won't see her in a week which will give me some time away from her, which i think we both need.. the amount of tension between us you can cut through with a knife.

i just think that with all the sexual fustration between me and this girl a week off is a welcomed break from it all... i've thought of angles that this could backfire on me.. but i don't see any that are to the point of non recovery.

in most cases this would work in my favor i'm just wondering should it be through txt msg or in person the day of?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just an update, i sent her a txt to cancel and the anger i felt from her reply txt was like a wave rushing over me.

she basiclly said yeah, that's cool me and (some other guy) can lay out then it all works out good.

all i said was glad i could help you guys out and ended it like that.. its classic to know that i can basiclly KNOW what this chick is gonna say next before she even says it and i knew she'd use another guy she's spinning against me to get me riled up and jelous. This was the first time she's ever used another guy against me.

needless to say with an action like that i don't even think i should speak or see her till she gets back from vacation. Which i know will affect her.

before i get your gettin played.. reactions. were not dateing and she's free to talk to whoever she wants only me and her spend the most time together recently. so it was only natural for her to use another guy she's talking to in a defensive move to put me in line. now i'm about to check her by basiclly saying nothing and doing nothing. inaction is sometimes the best action. and in this case i think it will show this little juggleing plate spinning circus clown a lesson in who's the bigger person.

excuse the resentment but her play affected me but its good that i'm showing it here and not towards her.
 
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well, sounds like you're decided already.

Giving girls space is traditional DJ advice. If you've been having problems with her, however, it may be sensible to consider the even more popular advice on this board: Nexting her.

What really makes you think you'll click so much better with her in a couple weeks if you haven't really dated her much at any point?
 
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