"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An MBA is too general and everyone has one. Perhaps a Masters in Finance would be better... I have a friend with an MBA from a respected university and some crap company had the audacity to try to get him to sell things over the telephone for them...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dude if you look back at my job apply posts back a year or so ago. I applied to over 900 jobs and only got 20 or so interviews. I got a total of 3 offers and this was right after the global financial meltdown. I made it into finance worked as an analyst and now i'm an account manager. Don't give up, never stop trying, adapt, and improve.

I've recently been job hunting as well along with working on my business. I've been taking my time as i still have a job and am waiting for my bonus but i've sent out over 100 emails since september and applied to over 20 jobs since then. Haven't landed one interview. I did land an offer last April right around my birthday but i declined it to go to Hong Kong and work there for a few weeks. Keep on trucking.
 

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I got many call backs from people wanting me to be accout managers but my plan is to start out as a Financial Analyst or Accountant. In 5-6 years I will be a controller or senior financial analyst of a company which is 100K+. So I'm really trying to get some experience so I can get that job. Right now I'm a Bookkeeper at Home Depot. Even though I don't make much now I'll take it over any other entry level non accountant job. I will keep my eyes very open but right now I'm really focusing on paving the road to my great 100k+ job in a few years.
 

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Well I haven't had any success getting a new job since I'm not willing to travel too far since I am working on my masters degree right now.

I am a bookkeeper for a retailer. I only make 9.20 an hour. I like having a little money but I feel like I have worked too hard just to get this. I am considering quitting and doing my own thing for some change.
 

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I have a good job lined up when I do graduate. But Im trying to get something local here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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metoo said:
get your 48k of college loans, use it to build 1/4 mill of credit, and get to some country where the interest on 200k lets you retire. Screw beating your head against the wall for 45 years, man.
You will achieve this exactly how?
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Well I decided I'm about to quit or at least put in a two week notice. When I quit I will be way more focused on myself and I feel like that's what I need to work on now. Figuring out how to get this little side hustle going and working more on myself and school.

400$ a month ain't sh!t. I know a lot of people here make that in a day.
 

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I put in my two weeks a couple days ago. I'm looking for a new job, (This time salaried). It's going to feel good not waking up at 4 in the morning... very good and this little break is very needed!
 
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