"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Geno

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I'm gonna recite the guidelines to this forum for everyone.

"Post your Don Juan Success Stories here. Please be specific about what EXACTLY you did which led to your success, and what you could have perhaps done better."

This forum is used not to brag about how you scored, it's used as a constant inspiration and motivation, as well as for pointers. I'm gonna ask you people who have success stories to tell to please follow these guidelines and I'm gonna ask the moderators to please leave success stories in the forum that they were originally posted in unless they meet these guidelines. I've seen a lot of posts that were so vague it seemed as though the people who posted them were just bragging. Even if they weren't braging, I still didn't get a damn thing from many of the posts on this forum.

As for everyone else, this forum has quite a lack of activity. C'mon! We'd all love to hear your success stories! And judging by how many of the success stories had to be moved here from another forum, it's almost as though everyone's forgotten about this forum.

Thanks for reading.

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"Women are a lot like the sunset, they're beautiful, but there will always be a new one tomorrow"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DocFrankeinstein

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2 thoughts:

We have a DJ tips forum and bible for telling exactly what to do.

The whole point of telling a successful story is to brag about a bit and people get inspiration from reading.

But that's just me

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If you take love as a crazy gamble
Throw your dice, take your chance
You will see it from a different angle
And you two can join the dance
 

Geno

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*sigh*, well, say what you want, but I'm jsut reciting the guidelines to this board and they should be followed.

And also, we do have those things but this wouldn't hurt at all, plus we have little here for inspiration and stuff. It's always nice to see a detailed success story
 

Paradox

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Actually the guidelines posted by Geno are correct.

The point is not exactly to brag but to prove that certain techniques work.

Stories that illustrate old and new techniques and exceptions to the DJ rules will be found here.
 
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