"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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About heart-to-heart talking

nvictor

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Fellas,

Is it good to heart-to-heart talk to a chick you want?
I don't know who else to talk to. Don't have any friend
around, and it's a family [big] problem. There are three
girls. One is older than me. I just feel like talking to her.
Beside her, there is the fiancee of my brother. But
that seems family again. And my old one-itis-now-friend
but I don't feel like talking to her.

If I told her, will I lose higher value? Will I be an AFC?
Here, I want her to listen. That's all.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jack McCrack

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It's not AFC when you speak to a girl and she listens. It's just communication.
 

Jack McCrack

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I like your sig by the way.
 
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