"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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defiancy

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yea my winter formal in high school is coming up and I'd dont really have a clue about dancing too well

so what type of dances are common in high school dances?

and how can you learn them? I wouldn't mind if you can recommend a website or sources such as these

If you guys can help me out, I would appreciate it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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superman2k6

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it's been said a million times, you're never going to learn the basic steps of dancing online. i know you might think there are sites out there with video clips or whatever, but as far as I'm aware, it doesn't exist.

don't be afraid to ask one of your friends to teach you some basic steps

also when you're dancing, the worst thing you can do is worry about what others think. If you look like you know what you're doing, people will believe you
 
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