"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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about being ****y/funny/stuck up

jigga23

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I came to this conclusion. it only matters if youre good looking though. im a ****y dude i hear it all the time from everyone. girls come up say youre so blah blah blah. i kind of figured girls got turned on by this attitude after hearing multiple girls bascially say the same thing. good looking guy+****iness = challenge. if a girl finds you attractive and you are ****y about it but not a huge d1ck girls will see you as a challenge for themselves to get the guy that wont talk to them and try to see if they can get the guy that is "above" them atleast in their eyes. i think the girls think ha this guy thinks hes the sh!t well im going to show him and get him to fvck me. obviously this backfires sometimes cause they want to bring you down therefore fvck you over/play games to get you back for making them feel below them. they want to turn the tables. girls can do whatever they want im not changing my attitude to the nice guy cause ive been there and done that. i guess im naturally ****y and you should be also.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaCam

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jigga23 said:
i guess im naturally ****y and you should be also.
That's a statement some are sure to hate.

Just make sure you're drawing the line between ****iness and arrogance buddy.
 
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