About Being "Persistent"

[verysuave]

some guys here say "you need to be persistent"

So u call chick up, she flakes but doesnt give you alternative date or doesnt reschudle

DO NOT BE PERSISTENT. Give it up.

WHen to be persistent?
Only when she counter offers.

Other than that, it mean's you're a desperate chump

 

[Analyzeit]

I know a girl thats loves it when im persistent, but shes a weird stalker hahha

tip:keep away from weird stalkers, they screw up your game.

 

[xdreamz]

persistant means not giving up in face of adversity...although every sign in the world may tell you that success is not possible you still get out there and give it all you got.... that is true persistance. persistance is what in a way got you to call the other girls, too.

 

[ucmedv8]

some guys here say "you need to be persistent"

So u call chick up, she flakes but doesnt give you alternative date or doesnt reschudle

DO NOT BE PERSISTENT. Give it up.

WHen to be persistent?
Only when she counter offers.

Other than that, it mean's you're a desperate chump

Well said!

 

[jdjd]

flaking as in last minute no show or just said she cant make it?

 

[Walking Anomaly]

follow that advice and i believe you'll end up very lonely men, or at least very picky with few options in terms of women...Even if a girl wants to counter offer and see you, im sure shes been socially conditioned not to act on it. Women are for the most part shy, and expect men to lead.

~WA

 

[verysuave]

follow that advice and i believe you'll end up very lonely men, or at least very picky with few options in terms of women...Even if a girl wants to counter offer and see you, im sure shes been socially conditioned not to act on it. Women are for the most part shy, and expect men to lead.

~WA

only boys with very little options spend much energy on a single woman

 

[verysuave]

and if theyre playing "SHY", eff her. If you still keep calling this "SHY" chick who doesnt reciprocate, it really means, u have no options. Theres no other way to look at it..

Rule is, she must give you an alternative, re-schedule.

 

[Bass-Turd]

you're only a desperate chump if you need her attention to be happy. only if you act like one

if a chick flakes. so what. nothing wrong with trying again, remember, your goal is to seduce her or get to know her, not always being right or showing her how tough you are

when a chick flakes, act like nothing is wrong. like it doesn't matter. ignoring her and acting cold will show that you were affected by it. that's not strength.

Quitter never win, and winners never quit

in a way also, like another poster said, persistence is having other options as well

 

[verysuave]

right, and that shows u have no options and you are desperate for her .If you had options, you wouldnt give this chick a 2nd try and care less

 

[Luke Skywalker]

right, and that shows u have no options and you are desperate for her .If you had options, you wouldnt give this chick a 2nd try and care less

What options? You have an option not to bother with girls at all, or that particular girl, even if you are not spinning other plates.

Let's take your arguement. So what if you have lots of other options -- if it's not with a woman you actually really like, then it's just releases for your ego, not really options. If anything, you'd be more turned on to a chase because this is not an easy girl like all the others and you have a bit of a challenge.

If you "really" like a girl, then you are going to make an EXTRA effort to try and set up a date or pursue her and follow a three strikes and you are out rule. If you make that second attempt then it shows you are really interested in her. NEXTING a girl you really like by giving up at the first opportunity, how is that confidence?

 

[ucmedv8]

If anything, you'd be more turned on to a chase because this is not an easy girl like all the others and you have a bit of a challenge.

Are we supposed to be doing the chasing? Or are we considered the prize?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Are we supposed to be doing the chasing? Or are we considered the prize?

A woman that you like more than she likes you is going to be the prize for you simply on the fact that you really like her. If you start ditching girls just because you happen to really like them more than they like you -- then what's the whole point?

The way I see it, if you don't like the girl that much, you give it a standard routine -- in this case you'd ditch it. If you really like her, then you have to pursue what you want unless of course she's really being a b1tch, then in that case you just move on - but at least you tried and know it was never meant to be.

If it was me, I'd see if you still have a rapport with her or if she's talking to you. Obviously, if she is, just set up another date.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Originally posted by verysuave
only boys with very little options spend much energy on a single woman

Lol not true...Only little boys will pull out of seducing a chick if she seems not interested after only 1 try and her flaking...Maybe you need to chill in groups together more first and get her more comfortable with you.

Originally posted by verysuave
Rule is, she must give you an alternative, re-schedule.

Lol again, completely false. You'll learn eventually that it will not work out this way often, if ever. Plus, there are no rules on this site...only guidelines. Its up to the person to make decisions on how and when to apply them or ignore them.... If you follow this rule by the book 100% of the time, watch how many girls you get. MY guess is very few...

~WA

 

[MisterMcGee]

Whether or not to be persistent with a girl is a tricky question. This girl has been showing me IOIs of the sort tat showed me she wanted my attention and wanted to talk to me - as soon as I asked her out, she got flaky... but she still initiates contact and asks me things and such. You'd think a girl would back off if she realizes a guy is interested in something more, especially when he ( I ) never gave her much attention or anything in the first place.
So do I be persistent? Who knows. I'll probably just show her it doesn't affect me that she blew me off by saying "is it okay if we just stay like how we are?"
But I'm tempted to try again with this one.

 

[fertileTurtle]

You're talking methods vs persistence. You persist in what you know is working for you even when she throws misdirection at you. If you haven't made the ho say no, persist.

 

[verysuave]

it all boils down to that you having zero options. If you had other hot b1tches, you really wouldnt care

but ofcourse, some of you wouldn't know that feeling and may never have experienced it.

Luke is your sign a virgo still?

Would a billionare want free coupons? would it be worth his time to drive down to the nearest grocery store so he can save $.10. (its a metaphor for those who didnt get it or now just got it)

 

[verysuave]

You're talking methods vs persistence. You persist in what you know is working for you even when she throws misdirection at you. If you haven't made the ho say no, persist.

that was ALREADY the point i was trying to make, if she didnt say NO AND DID counter offer, then keep chasing otherwise STOP

Sometimes.. i notice on this board, people don't thoroughly read posts, thye jsut jummp imto cnclusions and strt typng theiyr own sheit whcich and blab bout sheit that deosnt even ralate to teh fisrt post

 

[verysuave]

Lol not true...Only little boys will pull out of seducing a chick if she seems not interested after only 1 try and her flaking...Maybe you need to chill in groups together more first and get her more comfortable with you.



Lol again, completely false. You'll learn eventually that it will not work out this way often, if ever. Plus, there are no rules on this site...only guidelines. Its up to the person to make decisions on how and when to apply them or ignore them.... If you follow this rule by the book 100% of the time, watch how many girls you get. MY guess is very few...

~WA

it still boils down to you not having options if you keep chasing women.

It will be irrelevant whatever you say against the point im trying to make

 

[verysuave]

What options? You have an option not to bother with girls at all, or that particular girl, even if you are not spinning other plates.

Let's take your arguement. So what if you have lots of other options -- if it's not with a woman you actually really like, then it's just releases for your ego, not really options. If anything, you'd be more turned on to a chase because this is not an easy girl like all the others and you have a bit of a challenge.

If you "really" like a girl, then you are going to make an EXTRA effort to try and set up a date or pursue her and follow a three strikes and you are out rule. If you make that second attempt then it shows you are really interested in her. NEXTING a girl you really like by giving up at the first opportunity, how is that confidence?

irrelevant.

You have options = means you have other people you like.

Let's take your arguement. So what if you have lots of other options -- if it's not with a woman you actually really like, then it's just releases for your ego, not really options.

YOU DO NOT DO THINGS FOR A REASON!!!

Let me ask you this (im gona make it bold so you see it and read it and not blab about random crap)
WHY ARE YOU ON THIS ON SOSUAVE BOARD? BECAUSE YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR GAME AND GET LAID

You cannot say, because, I JUST FOUND IT and found it interesting all the sudden

Thats like you saying "OHH, well, u have options doesnt mean you like them"

I HAVE options because I like them = I REALLY LIKE THOSE OPTIONS THAT I HAVE = THAT IS WHY I HAVE THEMMMMMM!!!

Luke, why are you always on this site on this site with 2,500 POSTS? because you like it here, it gives you advice on how to get laid.. dont be saying "it's a site I don't really like"