"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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About a sort of LJBF

Realdemo

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I read a lot of thread in this forum about LJBF
My opinion is that some chick will assume this position bacause she is already attracted but there's abstacles between us.

I think about some girls that have already a bf, but maybe they can/think split in the near future with him, they're involved with this situation (girls are emotional-slowly in theyr emotional decision) but also appreciate your charme and presence and don't want lost you for ever.
So she say LJBF
I think in this moment we will accept this sort of false friendship.
And this is maybe the only chance to escape from the labyrinth of LJBF, bacause IMO is only a momentary time constrain.

But the question is: assumed this, there's a way/tactic/tecnique to remain around her and win her later?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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christz

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is english your first language?

anyway,

yes you can pull yourself out of the LJBF there are countless threads in this Forum to tell you how to do so.

But none of them will work for you, if you've been REJECTED and then LJBF'ed

what i mean by that, is lets say you go in for a kiss and she pulls away saying, no i don't like you like that i just like you as a friend. Or you put your arm around her and she moves away saying were just friends.

that's rejection and in that situation you really are just a friend, but if you guys flirt, kino maybe have had a fling or two and you got LJBF'ed then yes you can pull yourself out of that hole just do a search
 

Realdemo

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Sorry, english is my third language :(

I've make a lot of kino and she don't ever rejected this!!!
She's attracted to me in a way, she like me, i noticed many indicator of interest during time.
Anyway bf is a sort of obstacle between us, she say that she's unable to think at me with her until she's with this guy (and this relation is not good in this time and maybe she think something)

i wait
i persist
i push and pull
i next her
i what?

advices, ideas?
 

christz

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Originally posted by Realdemo
Sorry, english is my third language :(

I've make a lot of kino and she don't ever rejected this!!!
She's attracted to me in a way, she like me, i noticed many indicator of interest during time.
Anyway bf is a sort of obstacle between us, she say that she's unable to think at me with her until she's with this guy (and this relation is not good in this time and maybe she think something)

i wait
i persist
i push and pull
i next her
i what?

advices, ideas?
keep her, put her on the backburner and move foward with other girls, you'll lose her attraction towards and the ability to kino which is your only saveing graces if you push.

and don't be to avalible either, if she calls don't pick up call her back in like an hour or two
 
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