Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Whats up sosuave! Its been a while but i need a little advice...

I've been weight training for about 6 months now mainly in order to improve my strength as well as to shape up the physique a little:up: . Despite having a low BF% (below 10%) my abs are just BARELY visible (keep in mind i am 5'9" about 140lbs.) Is my BF% not low enough? What should i do to make them more visible? should i be cutting up?, bulking up? Honestly, i have no idea. Anything i've seen relating to improving your abdominal region has been targeted to people who are overweight. Nothing has been said for those in a similar situation as i.

I apologize if this post is redundant, but i need input from you guys so POST!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you squat, deadlift, train your abs? I would say either you're not 10% bodyfat, or your abs are undertrained.
 

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I squat and deadlift sufficiently, but i can hardly say the same for my abs.
 

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i've gotten my abs to look phenominal without doing a single crunch. I know people will disagree with me, and i dont care, but the key is early morning cardio.

People say "show me the science" and i'll say "I'll show you the results"

Do 45 minutes of AM cardio before breakfast for 2 weeks straight, and your abs will pop out.
 

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spitkicker said:
i've gotten my abs to look phenominal without doing a single crunch. I know people will disagree with me, and i dont care, but the key is early morning cardio.

People say "show me the science" and i'll say "I'll show you the results"

Do 45 minutes of AM cardio before breakfast for 2 weeks straight, and your abs will pop out.
Yes, show me the science that any person who does this will see their abs within 2 weeks. Also keeping in mind that this involves no special diet or weight training, right?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So if my abs are just undertrained, what kind of training should i do?
 

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well, i don't think you should do cardio because you are already a skinny guy, and doing that will just burn more calories. I have a 6 pack and the cut, and its because i take 15 minutes out of my workout 2 times a week to work on my abs.
 

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Two words:

Guerilla cardio.

And with that, I'm starting a journal. There needs to be some accountability here.
 

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G.Cardio

As good as G. Cardio sounds i also don't think i should be doing much cardio(but i could be wrong). I don't have much more weight to lose. Anyway, I'm trying to find some exercises targeting my abs that i can utilize. i think i should find some that can be used with weights and jus incorporate them in my workouts. thnx for inputs. Keep postin!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I checked there, but unfortunately i didn't find anything that i could really use. Anyone else with a suggestion???
 

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Weighted ab exercises are a double bonus. Strong core, more visible abs.
 

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I see. I presume the reps should be as low as any other lift would be?
 

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Yes. When I was making my own workouts, I was doing stuff in the 4-8 rep range. For example...on knee raises, I was putting a chain just above my knees and wrapping it so that it was taught when I lowered my legs. I would then string plates through them to add the weight.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've found at least four exercises(all of them weighted) that i can use for an abdominal workout. I decided not to do ANY cardio for the purpose of showing my abs because I'm skinny enough already and my abs can be seen when I'm contracting them. With that said, I guess I'll be hitting the weights. Thnx for the input everyone.

P.S.- post up what u think is the most difficult ab exercise that can be done!
 

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raidou said:
P.S.- post up what u think is the most difficult ab exercise that can be done!

Difficult? Or effective? Bridges with hips tucked and glutes clenched make me want to collapse, but thats more endurance and less size/definition.

I'd probably recommend a routine with some upper, lower and entire wall exercises so that you can develop an overall strong core. I like my hanging leg raises and my cable crunches.
 
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