"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Abdomen pains while rolling in bjj

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I had a few abdomen pains in bjj today. Alittle below the midpoint between teh top of my crotch and my bellybutton, and to my left (around the midpoint on my middle and the end of my hip.

Felt sorta like, something was pressing against that part, sorta like a stick was pressing into that part.

Maybe a hernia?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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U go to a doctor yet??
 
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havn't seen a doctor. rolled again today and was fine. I think yesterday had something to do with the squats and deadlifts i did a few hours before practice.

Anyone who what common mistakes pple make in deadlifts and squats that might lead to this type of pain?
 
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