"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ABC PRIMETIME Thurs - Pickup Artists revealed!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sstype

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Umm....not only was that lame, but those chicks that mystery were hitting on were nowhere near stunning. And that girl that joel supposedly ended up dating looked like trailer trash.

IMO, though.
 

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That was intentionally edited I'm sure. Especially when Neal was saying how women would find seduction coaching disgusting. They cut off right there. I'm pretty sure he drew comparisons to Cosmopolitans and other women's media, they just cut that part off.
 

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damn that guru guy has a nice bimbo:D

i'm glad that it wasn't an whole hour like they originally planed.











men need to go on a sex/relationship strike, biches are getting little too picky and snoby.
 

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It's not "The Game" that I'm worried about, but David D who has ads on EVERY page of friendster.

It ain't about canned pick-ups either - young guys and girls are now reading the newsletter and start screwing the whole balance up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think we could give every women in the world a link to this site, and force the dj bible down their throats, have them read every epic post ever written-- and the game will still be safe.

What we learn on here are tools. Most guys on here acquire confidence, self worth, and conversational skills. These tools will never take the place of attraction and real rapport. Read my sisters YM and seventeen mags didnt make me understand women any better.....
 

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I watched the show last night and it was pretty lame. Had some nice closeups of mystery, but this is all thanks to Neil Strauss. I remember hearing an mp3 on Ross Jeffries's site about the book and how he basically told Neil to write it and how he hoped it would bring in more business.

But they only showed some graphics of Speed Seduction and nothing much. It was cool to see the before and after of Neil Strauss. Before he looked like Tobias from Arrested Developemtn with a patch of hair on top, and then she shaved his head and became "cool"

Lucky for me Big Papi came through last night so I could relax and enjoy the very short feature.
 
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