"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aaron B I LOVE YOU!!!!! got a number at 7/11 your way!!

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well in this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88656

i asked advice in how to get all this hotties numbers that keep walking in and out of the store and i tried his technique and it worked like a CHARM!!!

It happend during the first hr of work too, this hottie walked in, and as i was ringing her out, at the end when i gave her her items i handed her a pen and paper and placed it on front of her. She said "whats this" before i replied she said "Is this what i think it is" lol i said "you know what it is" and i pointed to the paper, i didnt even have to say write your number, i was gonna say it but before i said it she already started to write her number on the peace of paper.

I called her up just now and the date is set for tomorrow at 7, she wanna go to the movies, ehhhh, im even surprise at her IL its very high, i even asked her why she gave me her number while we was on the phone, and she didnt say it but i put 2 and 2 together and i can tell that she really likes me:).

Thanx BUD!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I envy you.

:D Goodjob! But now I gotta try it for myself.
 

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A man with guts,I like that. Not too many these days.
Boy did I miss this board.
 

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yeh it feels good man, real good. Lately ive been like that though, cold blooded and not giving a damn when it comes to talking/approaching/and dealing with females. Basicly setting in my mind that im the price. Great results.
 

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need more threads like this and the one linked.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Its like a great poet once said

GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN.
 

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Or try David D's 3 minute email technique:

"Do you have email? Great. Write it down."

Substitute for 'cell phone' or whatever.
 

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Great job! Only a small note, in the future don't ask the HB why she gave you her #. That is giving her back control (AFC), she gave you her # cuz you were confident.

All in all, a good learning lesson. Nice FR, inspiring for others.
 

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Seems like a good tactic.....I work at the mall so Im gonna try it.......I used to use something like this when I got really good signs from girls, If they paid with card I'd tell them "can you sign here and write your number here" worked everytime...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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