"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AAAgh? Help?

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Theres this girl that told me she thinks Im fit, and that she fancies me?
I have known her about 3-4 days. My female friend thinks she's just desperate, and my male friends say that if I like her, then go for her?
She's a year younger than me, so i dont know whether people will tease me cos of it? What do you guys think I should do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Red07

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leave it, age differences in sec. school are worse than once you leave
 
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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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you better not let people tease you for having a girlfriend... whether shes a year younger or a year older.
 
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Age means nothings. You'll get older girls who are immature tw*ts and younger girls who are mature and cooler than anyone your own age. I'm currently seeing some girl who's 17 and I'm 15. I don't get **** for it, in fact I get more respect for being able to attract a girl two years older than me. I do get the odd idiot who thinks it's weird and tries to get people to think I'm odd for doing it. But they always fail, so they can go f*ck themselves.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One year is not really anything, neither is age.
It's all about maturity level, and if you think she's on the same level as you, go for it.

If they dis you for it, ask them, "And wheres yours?" (if they don't have one of course)
 
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Pfft a year. Who is gonna give a sh!t?

Go for it mate.
 
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BenPW-DJNewbie

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Thanks, we're gonna meet up sometime this week and chat for awhile. I'll see how mature and stuff she is. If she acts like a child, then I won't bother. I want someone mature who I can talk to. Cheers lads.
 
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